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feeling really stressed and depressed
Got a letter today from my atty. with information from the other side giving me a list of possible jobs I could do that are sedentary. Of course each one pays a lot less then what I was making.
It also upsets me because 2 of the jobs were the same, 2 of the jobs I have no idea how to do. 1 job wasn't listed. One is part-time. So out of 6 jobs, I applied for one My husband is upset because this injury has created a boat load of debt and I really feel like **** and I know that its not my fault. but I sure feel like it is.:Sob: Oh! yes I got SSDI but not until after my WC case settles to determine the monthly amount. |
I'm so sorry to hear of all your troubles. I guess states are different in that regard. Here if WC finds a less paying job then the one you lost they have to make up the difference. I hope you guys get through this...:hug:
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Thanks Jimbo. The stress of all this sucks and makes my feet hurt and flair. Here I guess they pay you some sort of difference for 5 years if you find a lower paying job. Then your on your own. 2 of the jobs are for pc technicians. The only thing I know is once it stops working throw it away and get a new one.
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Ha ha ha
:Thats-Funneh:I had to do that with my Dell a few weeks ago. It had a quick ending. Makes me mad about some stuff I list. I got a Toshiba now. The job probably is IT where you'd be the support person people call. |
Yeah I would be the person you would call and say sorry about your luck but its junk now. hahaha! why apply for something you know nothing about.
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Just being nosy here but what kind do you have?
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same as you did a Dell
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Mine had a quick death so after the burial I went shopping.
After some deliberation I got a Toshiba 17" notebook for the features. I had a Dell 17" notebook that lasted a little over 4 years. I like this one a lot more... |
This one is a mini inspiron, I;ve had about 2 years now, well see how long she lasts.
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Oh...I'm so sorry. They should have to pay the difference between the two jobs...which is better than nothing even if it's only for a short time...and also pay for retraining if you need that too. Not saying they will...this is work comp we're talking about...but at least here in IL that's how the laws read. But if I were you I'd apply for them all...you know they won't hire you if you are unqualified and then, if you can get that in writing or even just from a phone call, that will be one more piece of evidence in your favor showing that these are jobs you CAN'T do because you are not qualified. Does that make sense?
It just sucks because I know what it's like to be sitting there, wanting more than anything for your life to just get back to normal, and to have people who just don't understand tell you what you SHOULD be able to do. They clearly do not understand just what sort of hell this thing is. It's not just about having a job where you sit...it's about being able to function well enough to DO the job, get TO the job, get ready FOR the job, and all those other little things. If there were a fire or emergency at your job, would you be able to get yourself to safety? Are you reliable enough (from a health perspective) to be able to get yourself to work every single day that you are schedule? There are just so many things that go into it that you take for granted when you are healthy. I know...preaching to the choir...but just wanted to let you know that I totally get it and am sorry for what you have to deal with. Today must be the day for hearing from attorneys because I heard from mine today about my case. I also heard from another attorney and I have to give a deposition next week for ANOTHER employee's work accident. Good times. Also funny was that my employer's attorney said he cannot understand why I won't just "resign" and take more money in a settlement. Umm...what is so hard to understand about that? I want my life back to normal...job included...why exactly WOULD I want to just give it up? I'm hoping that in a few weeks I will be back to work...THEY are the ones that don't want me back. Sorry...but I like my job...so as long as I can get myself back there I don't really CARE whether they want me back or not...if I can do the job then they have no choice. I know they'll try to make me miserable...but I don't really care about that either. Once you've had to live through the HELL that is life with RSD the other stuff just doesn't really phase you anymore. |
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