I Have a couple of Questions for You.
 

Have you ever made a decision about something, knowing it was the wrong decision, but it was what you were comfortable with?

AND do you think things always work out some how even though the decision you made was not the right one? It may not be the easiest road traveled, or it may not have been the least stressful solution, but it works out?

Just curious what you think

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It's really difficult for me to attempt to answer because I'm confusing myself with the definition of words. e.g. "wrong" and "right".

I know I made a huge decision many years ago that's made my life way more difficult and in some areas more stressful. However it was necessary and I'm glad I made it the way I did. Wrong? Hard for me to define that word. In retrospect, my only main regrets have been the impact of that decision on others. The rest I deal with.

Vicky, If you need to talk about something privately that you can't share publicly please feel free to pm me if you are comfortable with that.

EDITED later to say I don't know what decision you have made to have you ask these questions.

I think... you probably didn't make the "wrong decision".
Think of it this way: you made the right decision for you and yours.



Move on and walk proud! You have had such a difficult year and more, dear Goofy-sis :hug: Please don't beat yourself up with the shoulda, woulda, coulda thoughts....

Like Lara, and, I guess, all of us... I've made decisions that impacted others ... and, so... you're not alone Goofy :grouphug:

David would say YOU take care of YOU. Self preservation...live to fight another day. imho, there are no "wrong" decisions...given the circumstances, the timing, the amount of pain in the moment, we make "choices". Our choices might be different tomorrow, or next week. :grouphug:

Thank you..... i love you guys.... I'm in a not so good place right now so very confused. LOL Even my psychologist is seeing me twice a week. Hes giving me a 2 for 1 discount LOL gotta love him.....

((((Goofy-sis)))) - yay for you and your psychologist - you're definitely doing the right thing girl!!!

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