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Shezian 04-10-2012 06:24 AM

Really worried about the future being only 41.
 
Hi again

Is there anyone in here my age or younger?

Does it mean if l have PN younger I will in massive pain at a younger age?

How do you all deal with this?
It all just seems so negative from here.

Sorry but this is very depressing. I am normally a very happy person, but now l am worried and waiting for the sharp pains everyone is talking about.

:(Sue

mrsD 04-10-2012 07:26 AM

Not all PN progresses seriously. The inherited types typically do,
but the others can be managed.

If you have a secondary cause-- like impaired glucose utilization, or some food trigger, a nutritional deficiency, or a drug trigger, toxin, autoimmune, thyroid, etc,
you can remove the trigger and stabilize. Fixing the cause often fixes the PN for the most part.

Viral triggers may wear off with time if that is your problem.

You need to be a detective of sorts to enable proper treatment and help your doctor find a cause. That is what this forum is for.

Susanne C. 04-10-2012 07:39 AM

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Originally Posted by Shezian (Post 868296)
Hi again

Is there anyone in here my age or younger?

Does it mean if l have PN younger I will in massive pain at a younger age?

How do you all deal with this?
It all just seems so negative from here.

Sorry but this is very depressing. I am normally a very happy person, but now l am worried and waiting for the sharp pains everyone is talking about.

:(Sue

Mine started in my early 30's with numbness in my toes, but actually the earliest symptoms were from childhood when I was impossibly awkward and clumsy. Mine is one of the hereditary neuropathies, and my extremely complicated parentage (adultery) meant that no one made the association between my half sister who wore leg braces and the fact that I couldn't run, skate, play sports, and only learnt to ride a bike with great difficulty. I also wore my shoes out on the sides, which I was punished for. I was made fun of by my family and other kids all those years.
I was afraid to mention the numbness to my doctor because all I knew about neuropathy was that diabetics got it and I was terrified of diabetes. When it reached my ankles in my mid 40's I finally brought it up. By that time my hands were also affected. I developed a severe infection from an unnoticed wound in my foot. The podiatrist who treated it refused to see me again until I had been evaluated by a neurologist. She, (the neurologist), was pretty certain it was CMT, but sent me to Johns Hopkins for second opinion and skin biopsy. I had more blood tests and one of the Athena tests for genetic neuropathies, HNPP, since I have pinched nerves. I decided, together with my neurologists, not to pursue testing.
So mine is slowly progressive and untreatable. I am 50 now. I walk with a hiking pole, and have difficulty driving more than a few miles due to cramping and weakness. I still have 3 of my 5 children at home, and my daughter has a new baby and needs my help. I taught high school English this year for the first time as I have been a stay at home, homeschooling mom all these years. It was a mistake. I am exhausted from getting up so early and dressing up and putting on makeup. I have to carefully plan my day and my resources.
I don't know if this helps. You seem to be in the early stages of being diagnosed. You may well have a treatable cause or one that responds to supplements. You can find workable pain relief, although you may never be totally pain-free. I am on 1800 mg. of gabapentin and low dose oxycodone as needed, which is more often lately, so I may need to switch to a patch or something. If yours is one of the untreatable ones, like mine, they usually progress slowly. Try not to panic. You will get some relief, some answers, and you will learn how to live with the disease if that is your lot. Yoga, stretching, walking, any non-stressful movement is helpful. I would not run until this is fully diagnosed. Any injury on top of your current symptoms will only complicate things. Good luck.

Sallysblooms 04-10-2012 01:30 PM

Try to focus on research instead of worry. I like to channel my worry to learning and healing. Finding an integrative MD is good too. They usually know a lot more about healing vs just giving meds like reg. docs. They are MD's so they can give meds, but they are usually very interested in healing and finding the cause.

There are many things you can do. There is also hyperbaric chambers that are used for neuropathy to bring microcirculation to the tiniest of nerves and vessels.

Always keep learning. :)

Shezian 04-10-2012 07:47 PM

Thanks so much, but
 
even though it's reality, when l hear stories like Susanne, which l am deeply sorry for her having to suffer like this. It seems like you have it I your genes. I don,t think that is the case for me at all. So hopefully at your age, l will be able to drive and walk normally. Even though it is sad what you are going through, it these kinds of stories l need to out out of my mind in order to try and stay positive and push through this. My mum said to me last night on the phone that people that think about this all the time tend to get worse, and she believes the body has an amazing ability to heal itself. Also, she said not to speak to people who are negative and to not look at this as and end to life. good advice , But it is all still very, very scary of the unknown of what is coming next.
Again, it just seems like everyone that gets NP just gets worse and worse, and it hard to be positive and hopefully when its all terrible suffering.


For me since l have got burning feet nearly just over 9 days ago, the heat has changed to my palms of hands only at night and when l walk my feet hurt. I have muscle twitches last night but the burning has gone. I have been soaking my feet before bed in Epsom salts and taking muti and b1. Still waiting on bd,old tests to come back to see if l am deficient in anything else.

Sue

Susanne C. 04-10-2012 07:50 PM

You have probably already mentioned this, but you aren't on any statins or triglyceride medications, are you? Nothing recent?
And I am just really glad that I was able to take care of my family for so many years before it became limiting. You will be able to too!
Read everything, but don't assume your situation will be just like anyone else's. Everything seems scary in the beginning, but becomes more manageable as knowledge increases and fear decreases.
Incredible knowledge, experience, and patience on this forum.

Shezian 04-11-2012 12:25 AM

Non l am not
 
On any kind of meds and never have and never want to be.

Glad you were able to bring up your family, but it is important to enjoy them now as l don,t think your very old at all. Plenty of time still left in life to achieve.

Sue

mrsD 04-11-2012 06:34 AM

You need to be reading the posts here daily. Sometimes other people's experience light an idea for you.

We are all volunteers here, and cannot make every post or informational post PERFECT. We do our best, but oftentimes
something comes up in a post, and then one can have a "bingo" moment:icon_idea:. I can recall many visitors here who do not tell "everything" and then one day out comes the salient tidbit that turns them around.

Shezian 04-11-2012 06:52 AM

I will hang in there
 
Each day until l figure out how to live my life with this, that is even if l have it.
Will find out more next Wed. It just seems so far away. Would love to know now.

Having muscle muscle twitches today and one has been bugging me all day on and off in the same spot. It is driving me mad.


Sue

Dr. Smith 04-11-2012 09:24 AM

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My mum said to me last night on the phone that people that think about this all the time tend to get worse, and she believes the body has an amazing ability to heal itself. Also, she said not to speak to people who are negative and to not look at this as and end to life. good advice , But it is all still very, very scary of the unknown of what is coming next.
Again, it just seems like everyone that gets NP just gets worse and worse, and it hard to be positive and hopefully when its all terrible suffering.

Sue, I agree with your mum 110%. It is not good advice; it is excellent advice! As I mentioned previously, stress, worry & fear can exacerbate symptoms, and even create more, including those of a psychogenic nature. (Psychogenic symptoms/disease are every bit as real as organic ones in the physical effects they can have, and are not to be dismissed or treated lightly/disrespectfully.) There is a well documented vicious downward-spiraling cycle of pain, insomnia, & depression, and it sounds to me like you may be heading for it.
Google: "vicious cycle" pain insomnia depression

I've been there, and it can be beaten too.

Everyone who gets PN does NOT get worse (and worse); most prognoses are not that bad:
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Effective prognosis and treatment of peripheral neuropathies relies heavily on the origin of the nerve damage. For example, peripheral neuropathies caused by vitamin deficiencies can often be halted -- even reversed -- with vitamin therapy and an improved diet. Likewise, nerve damage brought on by alcohol abuse can often be improved by avoiding alcohol. Peripheral neuropathies caused by toxic substances or medications can often be corrected in much the same way. When neuropathy is related to diabetes, careful monitoring of blood sugar levels may slow its progression and curb symptoms.
http://www.webmd.com/brain/understan...athy-treatment
The earlier people are diagnosed and treated, the better their chances of halting/reversing damage and progression, and you've only had this a very short time compared to most folks.

While I cannot find exact figures at the moment, with many people, PN progresses to a point, and then stops progressing further, or progresses at a very slow rate. Mine has not progressed any further than the soles and front half of my feet, and has actually gotten better, despite being idiopathic (of unknown origin).

The main reason it may seem it's all terrible suffering is that you're on a support group, and support groups (no offense intended to anyone here) tend to be populated by people who have a condition worse than average. The people who are average or above may come for initial information and support, then learn to manage their conditions, and get on with their lives.

There is a "Sticky" thread at the top of this forum: Neuropathy does improve that may shine some light on things for you. But you don't/won't see most success stories either here or anywhere on the web, because people who beat it and/or get on with their lives don't have need of support groups, so they have no need or reason to post or get involved.

Please, listen to your mum on this one. Find ways to distract yourself until you get those results. Get involved in something, spend time with your kids, whatever.

Sincerely, and best wishes, and...


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