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skywalker1988 04-20-2013 05:01 AM

An aged ole question revisited
 
I am not ashamed to say that I have only had sexual intercourse with only one woman who was my ex-wife. In today's society however, many men find themselves with many partners before their "wives". But I chose to only have sex with my wife, even though we did do it before marriage. The marriage ended last August of 2012. Our marriage lasted for 4 years, but I'm not here to talk about.

When I was born, I lost my right testicle. Last September due to pain, I lost the other one. To be honest and graphic, I do not feel comfortable anymore to try to date a girl. I want to date a girl, but it's hard having MS and not having a way to do anything. I know that you might get a kick out of what I'm about to say, but frankly, I have no balls...literally. In relation to that, I have been on and will forever be on testerone shots for the rest of my life. I have no problems sexually, but I am uncomfortable with the aged ole question that has been said many many times throughout the years...does size matter to women? It's one thing to have a small penis, but it's another thing to add to that with no testicles either.

My life has certainly not been the best medically. And if you search all my posts, that would still not cover everything I've ever been through medically. I just need advice from ladies who don't lie lol, if that's possible when it comes to regarding this type of issue. lol

skywalker1988 04-23-2013 08:42 PM

158 views and i bet too many scared to reply

Jomar 04-23-2013 08:49 PM

Most of those views where probably automated search engine bots..

I wouldn't let missing testicles stop you from dating and meeting someone new and special. The right person wouldn't care.
Best of luck on your search.

cloudsnapper 05-07-2013 12:28 PM

So, as a woman, I don't think it would bother me if a man didn't have testicles as long as I didn't want to have children. You should just give her a heads-up before she ends up seeing you naked so it's not a surprise. It would probably be good to say it like it's no big deal like "By the way, I don't have any balls. It's no problem, though." or something like that instead of like it's something bad. They're not the most appealing part of the male anatomy, anyway.
If you're worried about having a small penis, there's a difference in if you mean it's 1.5 inches or just below average. Extremely small would be a turn-off, but smaller than average wouldn't be a big deal to a lot of women. Some women are really into size, but I think most aren't. Just be sure to pay a lot of attention and don't rely on just that one body part during sex and it should't matter.
I think if you have confidence in yourself, you shouldn't have any problems in dating. Some women might be put off, but they're not the women you want to date.

KathyUK 06-03-2013 04:28 AM

Going to be graphic here and fairly blunt. It wouldn't bother me in the slightest as a physical issue. The no testicles issue shouldn't bother any decent girl unless she wants children. You may find more women who are already mothers or who are openly infertile are more 'reliable' in that way but at the end of the day if you're up front that aspect shouldn't be too difficult to get around. As for the "small" penis, to quote an age old saying, "It's not the size, it's what you do with it". Most of the male and female sensory nerves in their nether regions are at the very 'edge' anyway - with fellas having a sensitive tip and the lasses feeling more around their opening and clitoris. What might put people off is if you're 1. obviously so self conscious or cowed by it that you can't loosen up, have a laugh and plod on or 2. if you're not willing to try or inexperienced/unlearned in other ways of stimulation or unusual positions that aid penetration/pleasure including from other areas than the vagina. Most women feel more strongly about clitoral stimulation than penetration although some do go for size. I'd personally pick an experienced and inventive tidger over a pomy sized penis without the excitement or effort. Read up if you need to, loosen up and above all don't be so scared as to think all women are shallow. It's not just your knob they're interested in, have confidence in yourself (blag it and pretend even if you don't) and they will be attracted to you.


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