Unhappy and in Love?
 

I seem to be so hopelessly depressed and I do want to get over that. The problem is I can't or don't know how to. There's a guy I really like, a lot and I don't think he even knows I'm alive...yeah we talk and have things in common. I get it into my head that I'm going to go straight up to him and tell him how I feel but then of course the depressing thoughts kick in...he'll reject me, he'll hate me, I don't want to screw up his life.

How do I begin to get over this cycle & find true love? It's not that I'm afraid of him rejecting me, sure it would hurt my feelings but I'm afraid of him getting a look of disgust on his face. I don't think that I could handle that.

I'm so afraid of getting hurt that I'm afraid to come out with my true feelings. I feel completely worthless and I don't know what to do...

issyme

I just wanted to give you a :hug: and a hope for fulfillment of your need to find love and partnership

Well you don't need to feel like you have to spill your gets to him. Don't put yourself under any extra pressure. Just start by asking him if he wants to grab lunch or a cup of coffee, or even if he wants to rent a movie. It's more casual than dinner, and you can't really talk in a movie theater. Maybe just work on that friendly connection and see what develops? At the very least It's always great to make a new friend, right? Good Luck! You can do it! ~~~Jess:)

issyme
 

What do you like about him,is he nice,mybe he's shy,you just don't know.
Could you be a friend first,i know that's a drag,when you want more.Can
you say why you think you would be rejected. i wish i could promise every
thing would turn out perfect,i want it to for you. :)
So we are all here,and willing to listen,just tell us more,i can promise i will be on line..Let us help you feel a little better here are some :grouphug: Sue

I've been hurt by so many people who were suppose to care about me. I have a really big issue with trust. I'm afraid to let anyone in, so I build these walls around myself hoping to keep some of the hurt out. Pathetic, huh?