Scared and hoping I am not alone
 

Hello everyone,

Tomorrow I am scheduled to have 20 teeth pulled and an immediate upper denture and lower partial placed. I know deep down this is the right thing to do, as my teeth can no longer be saved. My problem is that my fear is winning out right now, fear that I won't be able to adjust to dentures, fear that I am not a strong enough person and honestly fear of depression as this is a life changing thing to happen. Everyone keeps telling me I can do this and once it is done that I have no choice but to accept it, but how do I get these fears to go away right now. I am to the point I cry at the drop of a hat, can't eat and can't sleep and constantly have this on my mind.

Am I just being a big baby or are these valid fears? Has anyone ever not adjusted to having dentures? I would go with implants if we could afford them, but unless I win the PowerBall that is not happening. Any helpful advice would be greatly appreciated at this time. I am 41 and feel like I am acting like a 5 year old.

You're not alone, marshiebug. :hug:

I'm scared, too, and I'm only getting two teeth pulled. I feel like a big baby too. But I think it's natural to be scared of the unknown. I also think you're probably stronger than you think, and you'll get through this. Sometimes I think that trying to imagine how things will be is harder and scarier than actually dealing with the present reality, however difficult.

Anyway, just wanted to offer you some good wishes! I also hope you get some support here from people who have been through similar situations.

Hi marshiebug,

So how did everything go with the extractions? Are you able to wear the denture and partial?

Bryanna