FYI Private Messages vs Visitor Messages
 

Some members seem to get these a bit confused so just to clarify....

If you leave a Visitor Message (aka VM) on another member's profile page....that message is NOT private. Anyone who is logged in to NeuroTalk can read messages written on member profiles!

A Private Message (aka PM) is private between the members who send them to each other...ie they go to a member's inbox and only the recipient and the member who sent the message can read it.