27 YR old Male Test
 

Hi everyone. First is I have been unable to ejaculate while having sex ever. I just started having sex 2 years ago. Throughout the whole time I have been unable to cum whether through sex or oral sex.. I am able to cum during masturbation. When im having sex or rcving head I feel a "numb" feeling on the head of my penis. A lot of the times I have a problem getting and keeping an erection during sex and oral sex. The longest I stayed hard to have sex was about 10 minutes then it goes soft. Sometimes I am able to get it back but never a full erection. Ever since I was young I have always thought it is a problem in my head ie anxiety and fear about it. Which I think is still a factor today. My sex drive is kinda low. Like I want to have sex but most of the time I rather not bc its to much effort. I remember the first time I head sex I was like this is it? I felt better masturbating. So it could be like im so used to masturbating and the way my hand feels that I don't get pleasure from sex. So im just looking on advice on the labs whether or not TEST could be an issue. My mind is saying yes 461 is not optimal for my age so that's the issue. But I don't want to do that. I would rather it not be so I don't have to have TRT for the rest of my life. So any advice on the labs would be helpful. My Cholesterol is also very low and was wondering if that could contribute to the lower t? Attached is the results of my labs. I am going to the doc tomorrow to go over the labs. But im just trying to see if I need to talk to him about anything.

I hope you told your doctor everything you mentioned here. Too low cholesterol is not a good thing.

I went to the doc yesterday and the first thing that came out of his mouth was your labs are fine. I asked him about the testosterone and he said well every lab had a different range and the next course of action is to goto sex counseling bc he thinks it's a desensitized problem. Which is what I thought from the get go from porn and masturbation. I'm gonna lay off of that stuff. Hopefully that's the case and not anything else. *edit* is a good reference to what I was talking about.

In regards to the cholesterol his first question was oooo ummm what were they again. So after I told him what they were bc he obviously just looked if the lab marked high or low on them. He said o yea that's fine as long as you total is under 200. I tried to talk to him about it and he Said it's normal. So it was kinda frustrating bc I knew more then him by just using the internet. But I'm not gonna stress over it. Gonna change up my diet and not masturbate/porn and see how that works out.

Good thinking for yourself on your activities. I could say more but won't.

Down the road, consider looking at DHEA as it is a hormone produced in the adrenal glands and starts to decline at 20-30 yrs of age. I don't know if conventional MD's test this natural hormone in our bodies, but integrative MD's do. Once tested, it can be purchased otc. I found I was low in my 50's, when I first heard about DHEA. You can find a lot of info online too.

I'm 31 and I don't feel nearly as aroused as I used to. It's a good thing because I can spend more time thinking about how to stay afloat economically, which I'm not succeeding at yet.

Numbness in the head is normal. The head is supposed to be numb. I've never felt any sensation in my head.

I've had anxiety about my testicles because of a few movies I watched as a kid where people got castrated. I subconsciously decided that if I was ever going to get castrated I would prefer to (lol) never feel my testicles.

I started taking testosterone suppliments at age 29 just to see if it would help me get over my testicular anxiety and it worked.

But I still never feel my head. I'd say that's perfectly normal.
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And no a physical doctor will ever talk to you about your sexual satisfaction levels.

I had a real cyst on my testicle and the doctor just tried to tell me that it was a normal part of my anatomy without even looking at it. It was like he was afraid of being gay or something for doing his job.

The cyst was a water lodge it ejaculated out later.
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It's also normal to feel like your not experiencing sex to the fullest. That's the whole point of sex. It's never satisfying. It is only more satisfying than not. The drive for more satisfying sex is what makes men want to procreate. It's a natural phenomenon. Don't let it ruin your economy.

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Can you get your doctor to refer you to a specialist in male reproductive physiology or anatomy?