I can't stand all this pressure
 

everything is falling apart. I am taking Pudge to the vet this week. I hardly see her eat. I don't see her poop. she spends most of the time under the table. Abby is a very playful and aggressive kitten. Maybe Pudge is sick or maybe she and abby are jealous of each other. abby gets a lot more attention but i have been crawling under the table more.It is a pathetic situation. only til abby came did pudge gradually start going under the table, I used to see her eat. please say some prayers for pudgie

I am sorry you are worried about pudge.
They are your family so I understand.
(((((HUGS)))))
bizi

I will say some good words for Pudge Bobby :hug::hug::hug:

thanks. I think it is psychological. I stayed up very late. I took new dry food out of a can i had put it in and gave it to her. she started eating. then little abby came out and pudge stopped. I only have a studio. right now i have four bowls of food out.
this morning when i went into the kitchen pudge came. I spent 10 minutes petting her and ignoring abby (I fed abby first). then pudge went away
i have also been manic. I have been buying rayon pants and alligator bags. haven't told the pdoc. he might tell me to stop. I have been getting all these free offers but i think they are scams so i haven't opened them.

good for not opening them bobby. Why are you afraid to call your pdoc?
bizi

I don't want to stop buying right now. it helps release some of the pressure. I like looking at the cheap pants and the unusual bags. they are an escape

I think it's a good idea to let your pdoc know about your spending because the binge buying and binge eating may be related behaviors. He may be more likely to up your Topamax if he knows about it.

I have been buying too much right now myself. Little things that are not making a big dent, but I need to stop.