i had the most interesting conversation with alice
 

she has been under the impression that since i am bipolar and suffer from
anxiety and depression that I am not strong and she can't tell me her problems. When her husband died I called her every Sunday and let her talk about her feelings and Ted. Lately two people called me a brave warrior. I talked to SURI for years and the last three and a half years she was fighting breast cancer. When she said she had a spot on her lung i knew she was going to die. I am strong and I could handle without revealing my pain.
i made alice promise that from now on she had to tell me her problems.

Good for you Bobby

Some people just don't get it when others have issues. But can still
function and be the kind of friend that helps them.

Donna :hug::grouphug: