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Abbie 11-11-2007 10:17 AM

What do you say???
 
What do you say when a 6 year old gives you as many kisses as he can in about 10 minutes and then begins kissing his hand and sticking the kisses in your pocket and then asks you to kiss your hand and give the kisses to him.....


When asked why he responds....

When you can't take the pain any more and you give up....

You can take my kisses with you to heaven...
And I can have your kisses here with me so I won't miss you so much....




I couldn't say a word.... just fought back tears.


This happened to me yesterday....
He has never been told about my mental status...he just knows my body hurts...

Wren 11-11-2007 11:10 AM

:hug:
What would I do?
I would just drop to my knees, hug the child, thank him, kiss his hand in return.

When I was away from him I'd cry my lonely heart out

Jomar 11-11-2007 11:56 AM

Sometimes kids see & know things that adults don't realize.
Sounds like a very sweet kid:)

Alffe 11-11-2007 04:15 PM

((((Abbie))))

Abbie 11-11-2007 08:05 PM

I've cried all night long and I'm still fighting back tears and a lump in my throat right now...


Thank you all for allowing me to share...

Abbie

Alffe 11-12-2007 06:43 AM

Thank you for sharing Abbie...talking about what is bothering us is always a good thing...it reminds us that we aren't alone on this path. :hug:

~scrabble 11-13-2007 10:29 AM

(((Abbie)))) .... thinking of you ... :hug:

Curious 11-14-2007 02:06 PM

what a sweety and insightful little man...who loves his auntie. :hug:

what i would say:

what about i keep using those kisses while you aren't here? and you keep giving me refills forever and ever? cuz no matter what and no matter where i am...i am always going to want and need your sweet kisses and love.

:hug:

Abbie 11-14-2007 03:06 PM

Oh my... Curious

Those are exactly the words I have been looking for!!!

Thank you!!!

:hug:


Wren....I did give him a tight hug..and told him I loved him...I told him I wasn't going anywhere...but he didn't believe me.

Jo...he and his twin brother seem to have always has a deep insight into me... like a lifeline to my soul.


To all... Thank you. Your hugs, words, and support mean so very much to me!!

:grouphug:
Abbie

Addy 11-15-2007 04:02 PM

:hug: Abbie... you are the luckiest duckie to have grandchildren!

How blessed you are to have this little person make such a HUGE difference in who you are today.

God bless him and yours!
xoxoxoxo love Addy


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