1st date since 1994
 

and I am so nervous and excited at the same time. I met a really nice man and don't want to screw up.

good luck how did you meet him?
bizi

Good luck BF! :D

:hug:No no, you just be your own wonderful self and we don't want him to screw up.:hug:

I met him in a bar a couple of weeks ago. We've talked by phone twice since then. Alffe, I still need practicing being myself and not what I became with my ex. Some of the things my ex would tell me still rings in my ear today. Thinks like I'm stupid, nobody wants me, I'm fat, I'm a bother to people and other mean things. If I act like that with this guy that's going to turn him off.

befuddled2

BF - I agree that you should be yourself, and I also understand how hard that can be after many years of verbal assualt. Try to imagine yourself the person you were at your best. We have faith in you...

Missy :Head-Spin:

Dear Befuddled,
I hope you have a good time.
Enjoy yourself.

Mari

Thank you Missy and Mari.

I had to take 2mg of Activan last night cause I was so excited and could not sleep. Today I just feel hung over.

befuddled2

when is your date?
jsut curious.
bizi

Hi Bizi,

My date if for tonight.