Small gripe?
 

One that has made me very reluctant to reply to many posters who are posting much the same questions on many different sites.
That is: WHY do you ask the same question on umteen different sites? Get different answers from all the different viewpoints and then ignore all responses from all sources and ask again?
That is why I've not been responding much both here and on other good sites. I see Mrs D trying valiantly and BobB and others to provide good advice, but, my concern has got to be ARE YOU READING IT? Sometimes from your questions, it really doesn't seem so. If not, what ARE you perceiveing?
I realize that this post might offend some folks. It is not meant to be, but it is my understanding that it is on-line posting etiquette to be impolite to ignore responses that others often carefully put out to you.
I hope this is not offensive, just a polite reminder to all to be cautious about which folks to you talk to about what. Hugs to all - j