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Mari 11-14-2008 08:09 PM

A good day at work. Need to share.
 
Hi,
For months I have been miserable about some of my bosses at work.
I come home feeling tired and misused / ill-used.

Today two of the sane bosses called a meeting with my team.
Everyone on the team was terrific. We stuck together as if we were reading from a script.
We changed the topic to something important to us and never let the bosses get back to their dumb issue.
We kept pointing out how our issue was related to everything they wanted.

My team did great.
We did all this while being classy and professional.

And we explained clearly in ways even they understood that nothing will get done until they make our change.


Sometimes progress is measured in smalls ways.
Tonight I feel tired but I also feel lifted up / buoyed by my team.

Mari

Yellowfever 11-14-2008 10:04 PM

That is just wonderful! I am glad you and your team worked well and being professional is not always easy if bosses are mean or just misuse you. I am glad that it was a good day for you. I hope you have more good days. You deserve to be happy :)

sharla

Quote:

Originally Posted by Mari (Post 408260)
Hi,
For months I have been miserable about some of my bosses at work.
I come home feeling tired and misused / ill-used.

Today two of the sane bosses called a meeting with my team.
Everyone on the team was terrific. We stuck together as if we were reading from a script.
We changed the topic to something important to us and never let the bosses get back to their dumb issue.
We kept pointing out how our issue was related to everything they wanted.

My team did great.
We did all this while being classy and professional.

And we explained clearly in ways even they understood that nothing will get done until they make our change.


Sometimes progress is measured in smalls ways.
Tonight I feel tired but I also feel lifted up / buoyed by my team.

Mari


waves 11-14-2008 10:04 PM

Cooooool!!!
 
That is wonderful, Mari!

:You-Rock:
It is really good to hear... you DESERVE this so much!!!

Congratulations to both you and your team! :winner_first_h4h:

:Dancing-Chilli::Dancing-Chilli::Dancing-Chilli:

:) ~ waves ~ :)

Dmom3005 11-14-2008 10:25 PM

Mari

They are your team so they are following your lead.

donna

bizi 11-15-2008 02:27 AM

Wow!
This is a great way to start the weekend for you!
I hope you can relax and enjoy yourself.
It is going to get chilly here in the next few days, what is your weather like?
we had 70's today it was great.
bizi

Pamster 11-15-2008 02:19 PM

AWESOME Mari!!!! I hope things change in the way they need to for work to be more positive for you. THis is a excellent start!~ THanks so much for sharing it all, hopefully more good things lie ahead. :D

Mari 11-17-2008 01:35 AM

Thanks
 
Hi,
After the meeting some of us talked.
We realized that no other group would have spoken to admin
1. so unified
2. pushing hard for something that will improve the whole organization -- not just ourselves.

We had no whining -- simply insisting on ONE constructive no-cost change.

If they chose to ignore, so be it.
We made our position clear.

Mari

Brokenfriend 11-17-2008 04:02 AM

Cool!:cool: It's nice to here that. Some Bosses think that they have to hammer at you. That might work on some in the crew,but for us who really try to help our bosses,this sucks the life out of us,and makes us feel bad,and down trodden.

I'm glad that things worked out well.:) BF:hug::hug::hug:

waves 11-17-2008 06:30 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Mari (Post 409478)
Hi,
After the meeting some of us talked.
We realized that no other group would have spoken to admin
1. so unified
2. pushing hard for something that will improve the whole organization -- not just ourselves.

We had no whining -- simply insisting on ONE constructive no-cost change.

If they chose to ignore, so be it.
We made our position clear.

That's superb Mari. You must be a great team leader... it takes that to bring this sort of thing about, even with a great team.

I sure hope they implement the change you have asked for! :)

~ waves ~

befuddled2 11-17-2008 08:25 PM

Mari,

This is good to hear. How did work go today?

befuddled2


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