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Junie 01-04-2009 04:25 PM

I think I posted in a Slow Zone, Need help??
 
http://neurotalk.psychcentral.com/sh...895#post438895
This is what I have posted and the place I posted does not seem to get much action and I wondered if it could be moved here or at least read and give me some thoughts??
Thanks

Curious 01-04-2009 04:36 PM

Junie, try posting with spaces.

Hit the enter key to break up your posts into paragraphs.

Long posts with no breaks are often not replied to. They are very hard to read.

:hug:

Alffe 01-04-2009 04:39 PM

Hi Junie...curious is right...it's too hard to read when it's single spaced and that long. We'd love to have you on board...can you "work on it" to make it easier to read? :hug:

Doody 01-04-2009 05:25 PM

((Junie)) You have certainly been through a traumatic time, and without fully knowing the details I say...shame on your sisters.

Just please, do not sit by a bottle of pills again and beg your arsehole of a husband to shoot you! That will not do.

It is hard to read posts with no breaks, sorry about bringing this up! When people do that, I find it really difficult to get through.

So forgive me if I didn't catch it, but are you going to counseling with anyone? Is there an agency where you can see a therapist on a sliding fee scale? We have one here that I used for years. When my therapist moved and started her own business though, I went with her. A good and kind therapist is worth the effort.

I wish I had magic words of help, but I wouldn't know what to do with a family that didn't want to help either, especially after all the help you've given out.

I also wish there were a way to get out in your own place and get away from that sorry excuse of a human being that you live with. He isn't worth the space that he takes up on this earth.

Keep talking, and talk to your higher powers and pray like crazy. Baby yourself, take good care of yourself. Maybe an answer will come forth.

We all care very much. :hug:

Junie 01-04-2009 06:10 PM

I am sorry, but I am not a writer so I have no way of knowing what you mean, I know I have spent 3 days writing even if it hurt so I might get some understanding, and I am close to being blind but I can read it. I could not find the how to guide on writing down painful memories for others to read and maybe give me some insight but if its to hard to read I understand. I just thought of this place as a refuge and did not know about all the rules.. It took all I have to write what I did, I now spend 20 or more hours a day in bed, and I eat between 500-1000 calories a day sometimes less, try to take my meds, but don't always take all my pain meds, so if its too much trouble to read, its ok, I am used to being ignored, and yes, I have been in therapy for years and if you had read what I wrote you would have known it won't ever happen again.There are very few people as sick as I am so I did not know I was creating a hardship when I asked for help, its not something I am used to doing. If I seem angry and hurt its because I am.
Thanks anyway

Quote:

Originally Posted by Doody (Post 438932)
((Junie)) You have certainly been through a traumatic time, and without fully knowing the details I say...shame on your sisters.

Just please, do not sit by a bottle of pills again and beg your arsehole of a husband to shoot you! That will not do.

It is hard to read posts with no breaks, sorry about bringing this up! When people do that, I find it really difficult to get through.

So forgive me if I didn't catch it, but are you going to counseling with anyone? Is there an agency where you can see a therapist on a sliding fee scale? We have one here that I used for years. When my therapist moved and started her own business though, I went with her. A good and kind therapist is worth the effort.

I wish I had magic words of help, but I wouldn't know what to do with a family that didn't want to help either, especially after all the help you've given out.

I also wish there were a way to get out in your own place and get away from that sorry excuse of a human being that you live with. He isn't worth the space that he takes up on this earth.

Keep talking, and talk to your higher powers and pray like crazy. Baby yourself, take good care of yourself. Maybe an answer will come forth.

We all care very much. :hug:


Curious 01-04-2009 06:19 PM

Junie, when a post is a just sentance after sentance with no space between it is really hard to read.

Can you see the difference between your long posts and the ones here, where there is some space?

All you have to do is hit the Enter key twice on your keyboard once in awhile, after a period.

No one here is trying to ignore you. We have members who spend hours each day helping here. But when they spend that long infront of a computer, they have hard time reading posts with no spacing.

I can try and help with the posts you already made, but in the future, just try and space. :)

Doody 01-04-2009 06:19 PM

No no no no, we do care, and I did read! All Curious meant was breaking up long posts with paragraphs, like this...

That's all! Your posts are very important.

Your life has been very overwhelming! And I can see why you are so overwhelmed! I am overhwhelmed by your story! I'm so sorry for what you've been through and please don't stop talking about it, no matter what! Paragraphs or not! Doesn't matter, just keep talking dear lady. :hug:

Alffe 01-04-2009 06:20 PM

Hi again Junie...:hug: It isn't about rules, it's about wanting to help you

and being unable to read your posts.

See how far apart my sentences are?

I hit the enter key twice after a sentence or two.

It makes it much easier to read.

Of course you are hurt and angry...who wouldn't be with your history.

How did you hurt your back? :grouphug:

Alffe 01-04-2009 06:22 PM

LOL...well I see we all were posting at the same time!

Welcome to our family Junie....we are a little looney at times. *grin

Curious 01-04-2009 06:24 PM

The Looney Monkey here.:D

Go look at your last post on the other thread. I added spaces. Can you see how that is easier on the eyes?


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