My 'i wonder' post
 

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Hugs for firemonkey
 

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:)

I'm glad I didn't offend you.

Sending hugs and good thoughts your way tonight.

Hamster

no matter how many times you aren't mentioned in "chat" threads...
 

You will ALWAYS be first and foremost in my NeuroTalk thoughts because the two of us are so very much alike....

I'm not chatty. Neither are you. I didn't take offense that the coffee club didn't ask about me. I'm seldom here to talk ... and in order to be chatted about, I would have to chat with others first ... and while I have always cared very much about certain members here, particularly Mrs. Bear and her children, and hypermom and our friend from Utah (end of tongue phenomena), and think of them as often as I think of this forum, I realize that their lives are busy and full, too.

This has been just about the most dreadful week in my entire life. Capping what has to be about the most dreadul year in my entire life. And I wish SO BADLY, Tim, that John had established your rant forum for I need to rant and cry and scream..... It is so unfair to lose a sister and have everyone tell you that you have no right to grieve.

Teri

That is so cruel telling you you have no right to grieve (((((((Teri)))))))

Dear Teri,
I am very sorry that you lost your sister.

You are having a tough time if you do not get to grieve the way you want to.
Mari

OMT, I am appauled. Who said that to you? (nevermind a name-that doesn't matter.) They have absolutly no right to tell you not to greive. Holy Crap. What an insensitive butt head.

I think of you too. I am always happy to see you post. I think that you and Tim are always so brave to open up when you can.

Thank you all
 

Thank you, firemonkey, Mari and Mrs. Bear (and all of you who have felt it in your hearts, but did not write it out)....

I have finally lost the frozen brain of numbing emotional trauma and begun to be able to talk about what happened. It is so terribly cruel, my being unable to grieve because of the viciously raging verbal abuse and the horrifyingly easy passive-aggressive abuse, as well as the total lack -of any of them- to acknowledge that I was one of them - someone who has lost an immediate family member, someone I used to hold on my lap.

Thank you all for your words.
Teri

Omg
 

Teri I am so very sorry. That last phrase really told it all. Someone I used to hold on my lap.

There is no license required for grieving. You know those ties in your heart, and that they hurt... you grieve hon, you do it how you need, when you need, when you can. They are full of it.

my heartfelt condolences and sympathy

~ waves ~

i wonder
 

i wonder if i can wonder what firemonkey's first post originally had in it.

~ waves ~