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loretta 01-06-2010 07:54 PM

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Originally Posted by Cake (Post 607518)
Hi Everyone

I want to let you guys know what's going on, as you're all my friends.

Three of my kids were in a very serious car crash on Tuesday night. My SIL (my husband's sister, Lisa) was taking Bailey, Olivia and Dayne, with her daughter Maddy up to Matt's parents house to stay, then they were going to go to the zoo the next day. But Lisa's car hit a tanker truck head on, both going 110kph.

Lisa was knocked unconsious straight away.

My 9 year old daughter Olivia, did not survive. Her injuries were extensive. She was on the ventilator etc for a while but they said she couldn't recover from it, so we let them turn the machine's off at around 3:40am yesterday (Wednesday morning here in Aus, your Tuesday).

My eldest daughter, Bailey, who is 11, was so brave. She pulled Dayne out of the car, kept screaming at Liv to wake up and even called us to tell us what happened. She has a sore chest from the seatbelt but is otherwise physically ok.

Dayne's (he's 7) face is cut to pieces from all the glass. He has some cuts held together with stitches but most of them are small. He has thousands of them though, all over his face and head. They had to take all the glass out bit by bit, including some on his eyelids. We are so glad he was asleep when it happened or some of the glass would have gone in his eyes. He also has a sore tummy because of the seatbelt. They thought he might have a broken pelvis, but thankfully he doesn't.

Lisa is in a very bad way. She's on the ventilator. She has some broken bones but the main worry is her head injury. She had multiple bleeds in the brain that they operated on but her brain damage is extensive. She's hanging on for dear life and we're all praying she's going to be ok.

It's all so surreal at the moment, so please keep us in your thoughts while we struggle through this nightmare, and keep Lisa in your prayers. We dont' want this to get any worse than it already is. She needs to be ok.

I can't write any more.
x Kate

Dearest Kate and family, My heart aches for you and your family. Thank you for reaching out to us and letting us know of your painfull loss and tragedy. My thoughts and prayers are with you and Lisa's family. How is Maddy? You are such a caring person-I know you are in shock. May you all be wrapped in God's comfort and love. Please know how much we care for you and what you and your family are going thru. with love and hope, loretta and soft hugs to all of you:grouphug:

Abbie 01-06-2010 08:11 PM

Dearest Kate,
My Deepest Sympathies to you and your family.
Sending gentle hugs and heartfelt prayers.
I'm so sorry for your loss....

:hug::smileypray::smileypray::smileypray::hug:
Abbie

Koala77 01-06-2010 08:11 PM

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Kate, I am so very sorry for your loss. Please accept my deepest sympathy.


Through the pain and loss you feel
You can count on our support
We'll be with you in spirit
In mind, in heart, in thought


May your grief be diminished with the knowledge that others care.



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bobber 01-06-2010 09:53 PM

Kate
May the Lord in whom we serve,heal your children and Lisa,and i pray, that the Lord will give you and your family strength and peace to make it thru this tragedy . I sincerly am sorry to hear of your loss.........bobber

Twinkletoes 01-07-2010 12:58 AM

I am so sorry about your tragedy and the loss of your sweet Olivia. (((((Kate)))))

What a brave 11yo to rescue her little brother!

I will say a prayer for your dear SIL, that she will be able to overcome her head injuries. Praying also for you and your children, that God will send his comforting spirit to be with you at this most difficult time. :hug:

Imahotep 01-07-2010 01:37 AM

I'm so sorry to hear of this.

May you find the strenght you need.

hope4thebest 01-07-2010 02:15 AM

Dearest Kate,
I am holding you in my heart and prayers for your loss and sorrow, and sending you and your family my deepest empathy....
I wish I could take some of the sorrow from your heart..
Our support, understanding and friendship are here for you, dear Kate.. :grouphug:

allentgamer 01-07-2010 03:08 AM

Oh man!! I will be prayin for you and your family Kate. Here's a long distance hug, luv ya much. :hug:

fmichael 01-07-2010 03:32 AM

Dear Kate -

Just logged on for the first time in a couple of days and am devastated. I can't believe what you are going through, or how you even had the strength to post what you did.

I know you and your husband are surrounded by close friends and family. And that you know your friends here reach out to you as well.

love,
Mike

ps Please check your PM.

Lynns409 01-07-2010 03:44 AM

Oh Kate-

I am truly at a loss for words. I know that there is no way on earth to alleviate your grief, but I hope that you remember that there is a community of people here who will try to shoulder a little bit of it for you.

If you ever need anything- a kind word, a person to vent to, or a soft landing for a moment- please let me know. I cannot fathom what you are going through, but my thoughts will be with you.

Lynns


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