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Abbie 01-07-2010 10:57 PM

BUMP.... Too important to let this slide down the board...

debbiehub 01-07-2010 11:06 PM

sorry
 
So sorry for your loss- I can't imagine the grief you are feeling. You are in my thoughts!

Love Debbie

tinglytoes 01-08-2010 01:18 AM

shocking news...
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by Cake (Post 607518)
Hi Everyone

I want to let you guys know what's going on, as you're all my friends.

Three of my kids were in a very serious car crash on Tuesday night. My SIL (my husband's sister, Lisa) was taking Bailey, Olivia and Dayne, with her daughter Maddy up to Matt's parents house to stay, then they were going to go to the zoo the next day. But Lisa's car hit a tanker truck head on, both going 110kph.

Lisa was knocked unconsious straight away.

My 9 year old daughter Olivia, did not survive. Her injuries were extensive. She was on the ventilator etc for a while but they said she couldn't recover from it, so we let them turn the machine's off at around 3:40am yesterday (Wednesday morning here in Aus, your Tuesday).

My eldest daughter, Bailey, who is 11, was so brave. She pulled Dayne out of the car, kept screaming at Liv to wake up and even called us to tell us what happened. She has a sore chest from the seatbelt but is otherwise physically ok.

Dayne's (he's 7) face is cut to pieces from all the glass. He has some cuts held together with stitches but most of them are small. He has thousands of them though, all over his face and head. They had to take all the glass out bit by bit, including some on his eyelids. We are so glad he was asleep when it happened or some of the glass would have gone in his eyes. He also has a sore tummy because of the seatbelt. They thought he might have a broken pelvis, but thankfully he doesn't.

Lisa is in a very bad way. She's on the ventilator. She has some broken bones but the main worry is her head injury. She had multiple bleeds in the brain that they operated on but her brain damage is extensive. She's hanging on for dear life and we're all praying she's going to be ok.

It's all so surreal at the moment, so please keep us in your thoughts while we struggle through this nightmare, and keep Lisa in your prayers. We dont' want this to get any worse than it already is. She needs to be ok.

I can't write any more.
x Kate

Dear Kate, your news is so very shocking and it is hard to imagine how you, and everyone else connected, can manage it at all. I know that these deep, intense shocks, can permanently alter ones sense of reality. It is a good sign that you could reach out for support in the midst of all of this.

Sharing will hopefully help you cope along with taking it moment to moment. Tolerating the intolerable and unbelievable is possible as long as we know others are with us on the journey when it becomes too much. Please always reach out when things are too much to bear.

I pray that you, and all your beloved family members, will be able to share the True Heart of faith, forever present, despite the incredible suffering of this tragic event. My prayers for peace and healing are with you all. Especially for the very little ones who's perceptions of life are altered far too early. It is beyond comprehension. My Deepest Sympathies and Wishes for Healing on all levels TT

GalenaFaolan 01-08-2010 05:38 AM

Something compelled me to come to the boards after not logging in for some time now. I'm so sorry for your loss, my heart and thoughts are with you and your family. Being a mom of 4, I can't imagine. Thank you for even being able to type the post to let us know. I hope your SIL will improve and get better each day. Know that many people love you.

Big Super Soft Hugs,

Karen

Abbie 01-08-2010 03:19 PM

Bumping up again... don't want Kate to miss this when she is able to...
:hug::hug::hug::hug::hug::hug::hug::hug::hug::hug: :hug::hug::hug:

angelrsd 01-08-2010 06:12 PM

bump keep it on top

Cake 01-08-2010 10:07 PM

Thank you all SOO much.

Knowing we have such a huge amount of love and support from around the world gives us so much strength and comfort.

Maddy, our niece, is doing really well, hardly a scratch on her. Lisa is still very critical but has started improving bit by bit. In a few days they'll see if she's up to breathing or anything on her own. She's had a few setbacks but we're holding on to the good parts we can and keeping hope that she'll recover well.

Thank you again for all your kind thoughts.

*edit*

xx Kate

keep smilin 01-09-2010 09:38 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Cake (Post 608532)
Thank you all SOO much.

Knowing we have such a huge amount of love and support from around the world gives us so much strength and comfort.

Maddy, our niece, is doing really well, hardly a scratch on her. Lisa is still very critical but has started improving bit by bit. In a few days they'll see if she's up to breathing or anything on her own. She's had a few setbacks but we're holding on to the good parts we can and keeping hope that she'll recover well.

Thank you again for all your kind thoughts.

I know some of you want our facebook details to keep on track of what's going on, as I just can't keep updating everywhere. If you search on facebook, my name is Kate Hibbert, in Australia. Just add a note to your friend request to let me know you're from here. Also my blog is at www.thesixofus.wordpress.com and I update that when I can.

xx Kate

Kate~

So wonderful to hear from you...the love and prayers from all of us here are and will be for a very long time be, rolling your way... Many of us, being parents here and others that are not, we are all so devestated for you and your entire family.. Bless you during this time and always...I just know that that you have a very beautiful guardian angel forever looking over you...speak your heart...

Much love and sympathies,

K :hug::hug::hug::hug::hug::hug:

Breezy55 01-09-2010 01:46 PM

Kate,as a mother of three I can't even imagine what you are going thru. You know by now that we are all here for you during you'r time's of sorrow. Please find the strength you need with God's help! If someone listen's or stretches out a hand,or whispers a kind word of encouragement,or attempts to understand a person's loss,extraordinary things begin to happen! I will weep with you Kate,however I am praying for you and your family every day and night! Always Breezy! :hug: :Heart:

cindi1965 01-09-2010 02:41 PM

My prayers are with you and your family.....only God knows why:grouphug:


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