I am the opposite as I need to wear shoes every minute I am on my feet but wear Nike walking shoes. Those shape ups look dangerous to me for our condition. That is just me though. I am very sensitive to wind blowing,clothes etc. I know the more I have stayed away from things like that the more sensitive I have become. It is like a catch 22. Sometimes for clothes it just takes time to adjust.
I think it is a good idea for your husband to go to your apt. Not only will it help him understand more I also think it helps in how doctors treat you as a patient.