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ballerina 11-14-2011 08:20 PM

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Originally Posted by kathy d (Post 824715)
Congrats Cindi,
Like LitLove said...it is so sad we have to congratulate each other on getting SSD. Sad but a reality in our life for sure. Now you may be ready for the "Big Leagues" like me lol...riding the handicapped bus. What a treat that is here in PA. I think I am doing good and have lots of strength but just going through the process of pick-up and drop-off and the nastiness of some people (and other patrons) is horrible. I feel like such a dufus when I go through this scenario. Most people think because we are injured/disabled we are total idiots. I am trying to get through that problem all the time. And now you have your SSD you can begin the never-ending paper process of Medicare/Medicaid, etc...the fun never stops. I make so many phone calls, type letters, etc. I feel like I need a secretary anymore. Most people think we sit home and eat bon-bons all day (I can't wait for that to happen) lol. Welcome to the "Big Leagues!"

I think I am probably the only one here that had absolutely no problem with getting SSD. I filled out the paperwork, had someone drop it off, and by the fourth month got a letter saying I had it. No appointments, no attorney, nothing. Strange huh? Although with everything else in life I had a hard time. Go figure.

Good luck with everything and if you need any help from us here please feel free to ask. We all have a wealth of information and it is a great place to get quick info.
Take care,
kathy d

You are not alone by far. There are many of us who got SSDI on the first round with no legal representation. Congrats to all of us, no matter how we were approved!

ballerina 11-14-2011 08:22 PM

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Originally Posted by cindi1965 (Post 824594)
Just got my first of many SSDI checks today!!! I haven't even gotten the papers to say that I qualified...so anyone who is going through the SSDI roller coaster, stay on and hold tight...it's coming to you soon!!!

Doing the happy dance with you!!!!!!!!!!!

Russell 11-14-2011 08:56 PM

For you Cindi...

:Dancing-Chilli::Dancing-Chilli::Dancing-Chilli::Dancing-Chilli::Dancing-Chilli::Dancing-Chilli:

dd in pain 11-14-2011 11:02 PM

:Dancing-Chilli::Dancing-Chilli::Dancing-Chilli::Dancing-Chilli::Dancing-Chilli::Dancing-Chilli:[/QUOTE]

kathy d 11-14-2011 11:59 PM

Wow Cindi...you must be very very special because Jimbo sent you the dancing chilli AND a dancing turkey too. lol.

It is the little things in life that make me laugh!...just bear with me!
kathy d



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Originally Posted by jimbo (Post 824748)
For you Cindi...

:Dancing-Chilli::Dancing-Chilli::Dancing-Chilli::Dancing-Chilli::Dancing-Chilli::Dancing-Chilli:


cindi1965 11-15-2011 01:13 PM

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Originally Posted by kathy d (Post 824794)
Wow Cindi...you must be very very special because Jimbo sent you the dancing chilli AND a dancing turkey too. lol.

It is the little things in life that make me laugh!...just bear with me!
kathy d

It's ok Kathy, we have to appreciate the little things that DO make us laugh....I stupidly thought that getting the SSDI was going to be a cure all, but the excitement of getting the money yesterday through me into a small flare...it's also been raining here. I have to laugh at myself for being so dense. :rolleyes:

kathy d 11-15-2011 02:13 PM

Hi Cindi,
I don't think you are dense. You have accomplished something and for us to accomplish anything in one day is an amazing thing. You go and celebrate.

I think the rain had alot to do with how you were feeling yesterday...I had a bad day yesterday too and today seems not much better and we are expecting rain prob tomorrow here. I get alot more burning and aches before the storm hits. Hope you are feeling less "dense" today. lol.
kathy d

LIT LOVE 11-15-2011 04:51 PM

Cindi, it sure isn't winning the lotto (nor should it be) but it should provide you with a bit of financial stability. Depending on your family resources, and what your state offer's to the disabled, you might find additional help now as well...

Our children grow up so quickly, that if you can use any portion of your backpay to create memories with or for them, I highly recommend it.

Jimking 11-16-2011 03:08 PM

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Originally Posted by cindi1965 (Post 824938)
It's ok Kathy, we have to appreciate the little things that DO make us laugh....I stupidly thought that getting the SSDI was going to be a cure all, but the excitement of getting the money yesterday through me into a small flare...it's also been raining here. I have to laugh at myself for being so dense. :rolleyes:

Congratulations Cindi! I knew you'd receive what you are entitled to. :)
I thought that when Suzy received her SSDI, in which it was significant, 3.5 years of backpay, that she would cheer up etc. She never smiled, I did all the smiling of course. Although my mental pain was eased her physical pain didn't. But the stress for her was greatly reduced which is a damn good thing.
Sleep good Cindi!! :)

cindi1965 11-16-2011 07:11 PM

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Originally Posted by Jimking (Post 825201)
Congratulations Cindi! I knew you'd receive what you are entitled to. :)
I thought that when Suzy received her SSDI, in which it was significant, 3.5 years of backpay, that she would cheer up etc. She never smiled, I did all the smiling of course. Although my mental pain was eased her physical pain didn't. But the stress for her was greatly reduced which is a damn good thing.
Sleep good Cindi!! :)

Sadly, I didn't get any backpay and my lawyer and I don't know why. We decided not to fight it because of all the training that I had in my position, a judge could easily resended the decision and said that I could go to a different job, so we left well alone..

I am making the same amount of money that I did about 4 years ago. By this I mean with all the extra deductibles that I had taken out of my work paycheck for eye, dental, life, and medical along with union dues and donations to the sick bank, it may be a little more. I didn't qualify for SSI.... Not having the financial burden in our family is better than winning the lottery. It makes me feel like a contributing member of my family and a weight has been lifted off my shoulders.

Peace of mind is good medicine :)


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