Hey ang...

sometimes things just fall apart and everything seems to be going wrong... but things DO get sorted eventually..

Following what others said, I am not a mum, but there was nothing else you could have done, and you stood up for your daughter and fought her side, and when that didn't work, you removed her from the situation. What else could you have done?? I REALLY hope that someone gets help for the son soon - in my personal opinion anyone that harms animals - ok, and children and people - should be shot - (but I know I am over reacting and please don't shoot him - would be messy).

I hope you are in a safe place and that your pain calms down - are you taking the meds reguarly and not waiting for them for when the pain is agonising?

All my love and I hope you and your kids are all ok

Love ya

Froggsy xxxxxxxx

I have not been posting because , like you I have some serious issues going on in my life, but I wanted to pass this on to you

IN THE FACE OF SUCH UNCERTAINTY, BELIEVE IN TWO THINGS---

YOU ARE STRONGER THAN YOU THINK
AND YOU ARE NOT ALONE
YOU CAN BE CHANGED BY WHAT HAPPENS TO YOU, BUT
REFUSE TO BE REDUCED BY IT.
YOUR WHOLE FAMILY IS IN MY PRAYERS. yOUR
NEPHEW IS IN SERIOUS NEED OF HELP, IF YOUR SISTER WILL NOT GET HELP YOU NEED TO TURN HIM IN-PLEASE! I SPEND FIVE YEARS IN THE COURT SYSTEMS WITH ABUSED CHILDREN AND YOUR NEPHEW IS CRYING OUT FOR HELP. CAROSE

Dear Unrouley, YOU and your daughter have done nothing wrong, adn I agree WHOLHEARTEDLY witih the othre posters..

This boy is displaying VERY SERIOUS symptoms of a Conduct Disorder (cruelty to animals, inappropriate sexual behaviour) which may not only be a result of abuse, but left unreported and UNTREATED, may indeed result in Antisocial Personality Disorder as an adult. With MUCH more SERIOUS CONSEQUENCES than a dead cat...This boy needs intervention and help NOW.

My prayers and best wishes to you and your children, Unrouley..you a BRAVE lady, and your children are VERY LUCKY to have YOU as their role-model! to you and your children

Most Respectfully,

thank you guys. thank you, thank you, thank you. thank you for speaking the truth and not just what i want and NEED to hear. i have been "detoxing" my brain today and trying to flush out this filth that keeps festering. i slept thru the night last night and i got a NAP today! PRAISE GOD!!!!!!!! if i would have brought my kids with me, i would have been even more... well, you know. i finished a movie and i got to read a book. i cooked some steaks for dinner. the only down side to today is the pain. i have not taken that medicine continuously (...frogga...) as i should. i know i need to take better care of me.

as for my sister and her family, i am going to let it go. she knows what she needs to do. i really believe that she is living in her own hell with her husband and my biggest concern is making sure that my children know how wrong it was and that what happened was not their fault. i know you guys have encouraged me to turn them in, but i just can not fight another battle. i am praying for my sister and her family and will continue to do so, but my first concern has to be for the safety and welfare of my own children. i have to save my family first and foremost.

i have really found so much encouragement from you guys and as kooky as it might sound, you have saved me.

shalom,
ang