sorry to hear about you're trouble, I fight my RSD alone and I'm pretty sure it's better that way. It would be worse for the people around me and IMO for me because the expectation is hopeful from other people but to the person that can feel the discomfort that is just making it worse - hard to explain

I'm trying to say that it might well be the right thing to leave him, for everyone's sake. Also he's bang out of order for treating you badly, why would you want to make other people feel bad when you better than anyone else know what's that's like consistently

I think most people on this forum are thinking what I'm thinking and that's that it is only going to get so much worse for him and goodness knows how he will treat you then considering how he's been with you so far

He should bloody appreciate how understanding you are and how lucky he is to have such great people around him, you clearly would do anything for this man but I'm just not sure you should

if you ever need someone to talk to let me know. I wish you all the best