Oh Ada,

My heart goes out to you, I've been where you are now. You need the support of all of us and you know you have it. Make sure you have whatever you need from your doctor to get you through this time of all times. Don't try to start looking after everyone else right now, let them look after you, specially in the next few weeks.
You are very much in my thoughts at the moment, be strong, love and hugs.

Ada, I am so sorry for your loss. May you all be at peace knowing that Bill will no longer suffer. Keep all your wonderful memories close to help you thru this most difficult of times. Wishing there was more that we all could do for you at this time. Let all of our words be of some comfort to you. Because we do all care. Try to get some rest & make sure you do take care of you. Let your family take care of you .
*HUGS*
DebbyV

You, Your Family and friends are all in my thoughts and prayers.
May God hold you in his hands.

God Bless you all.

*hugs* we're all here with open arms and with our hearts going out to you.
i know Billl is looking down on you. he will never leave you.

dear ada,

my deepest sympathy to you and bill's children.

Curious

My deepest sympathy Ada. May Bill rest in peace, in God's hands.

Cherie

please accept my deepest sympathy at your loss. many prayers are being sent your way. when 2 souls find each other like yours and bills, they are never really apart. he will always be with you, and youwith him. if there is any way i can help, please just call on me. until then, love hugs and prayers are being sent to you.

hugs and prayers

Dear Ada,

I'm so sorry for your loss. My deepest sympathies to you and your family. I pray for peace and painless days for you as you grieve.

Catherine

Ada, I'm so, so very sorry for your loss. I know there are no words to say right now that will make you feel any better. The loss of a loved one is very difficult...but the loss of a husband, a soul mate, is one of the most difficult to get thru. I hope you find solace, comfort, peace, in knowing he is no longer in pain, and I hope you know when you need a support group to help you thru this time. And I hope, too, that you will remember this very wise poem during this Thanksgiving season, which I am sure is going to be awfully difficult for you.

DO NOT STAND AT MY GRAVE AND WEEP
By Mary E. Frye

Do not stand at my grave and weep,
I am not there; I do not sleep.
I am a thousand winds that blow.
I am the softly falling snow.
I am the gentle showers of rain.
I am the fields of ripening grain.

I am in the morning hush.
I am in the graceful rush
of beautiful birds in circling flight.
I am the star shine of the night.

I am in the flowers that bloom;
I am in a quiet room.
I am in the birds that sing;
I am in each lovely thing.

Do not stand at my grave and cry.
I am not there; I did not die.

Please take care of yourself. Cry if you need to. Laugh at the memories. Smile at the happy times. Allow yourself to hurt when you need to, then wrap your arms around yourself, hug yourself, and know that Bill is holding you tightly in his arms, as he'd do if he were there with you.

You are in my thoughts and prayers...and Bill is watching over you, and God is holding him in his loving light.

Ada, I am so sorry to hear about Bill.. Your family has been in my prayers, and you know if you need anything all you have to do is call me.

Love ya,
Janet