Bill's gone.

ATallOne · 11-22-2006, 10:54 AM

You have us here waiting for you when you are ready my dear. In the meantime take it slow and know that many many prayers are with you and your family. I am so saddended for you loss. I do so wish I was closer to help you through this. I can cook up a mean meal in no time.

In the meantime just know that you have your family here who love you very very much!

Love Mark xoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxox

debbi3674 · 11-22-2006, 11:41 AM

Oh Ada, I havent talked to you in soooo long...to anybody really, but I feel like we are old family. I am so sorry for your loss and you are one strong woman. Sending lotsa love and prayers and hugs your way. Love from Deb

Diamond Lil · 11-22-2006, 12:44 PM

Ada: Words cannot express how saddened I am to learn of Bill's passing. Please know that you and your family are in my thoughts. Regards, Lil

himomdp · 11-22-2006, 01:09 PM

Ada and Family,

Oh my...tears...and hugs!

My thoughts and prayers are with you and the family, Ada.

You know, even though I've never met you or Bill, through the many years, I know I'm so blessed to know we are friends. Quite a story was told and many yet to be told about your lovely family.

Take comfort in the fact that as you grieve this whole RSD family is grieving with you. You have impacted this family. I admire you Ada. So you go surround yourself with your family and friends and celebrate your dear husbands life! Here we call this Hawaiian Style. I will be waiting for you as will all your other friends here when you are ready. Cry, grieve, and laugh, and please do let us know how you are doing.

Do remember to take care of yourself... as I know you are also very concerned with taking care of your children and the kids.

Peace be with you...as Bill is always with you..only a whisper away.

My warmest aloha,
...Dana

fmichael · 11-22-2006, 04:00 PM

Dear Ada,

Please accept my sympathy and the love from all of us around you, in this time of enormous sadness. Know that you and Bill are in all of our hearts.

Mike

jllenrad · 11-26-2006, 02:39 AM

I too am sorry to hear of your loss. Although our words cannot take the pain away, I do hope you will find strength in knowing others care deeply and wish you and your family well. Keep him alive in your heart and memories and know that one day you will be together again.

moonstar · 11-26-2006, 05:02 AM

Ada So Sorry For Your Loss..haven't Written To You But Have Read Your Posts..i Am Going Thru Something Similar.. It Takes Time To Cope But You Have Many Understanding Friends Here...be Good To Yourself So Your Pain Does Not Double Your Loss..thinking Of You And Your Family...moonstar

Rsd For Over 13 Yrs. Trying To Cope With The Loss Of Handicapped Child..due To Medical Neglegience 10/16/05

Joselita · 11-26-2006, 08:38 AM

Dear Ada,
Oh Sweetie....I am so very sorry. I don't know how I missed this post when it was up at the top before. (((Hugs)))

I am sorry that Bill has passed on to a better place, because that means that you are missing him so badly. But, I am glad that he isn't in pain or suffering at all anymore. I know that you are probably sick of hearing those words by now, but I believe them in my heart to be true. I also believe that you are not alone, as he is watching over you and is with you all the time now, making sure that you are alright in all the ways that he can. Again, I know that you have probably heard these words too much over the past week too, and will probably hear them so many time more.....but right now, words are all that we all have. Words, and love, and good thoughts and prayers with some warm hugs mixed in, that we are trying to send to you over the computer and phone lines the best way that we can. But, I do believe that these words of mine are true....just as I believe that once you can have some peace, and are able to just sit....and be calm....you will feel that you aren't alone.

But, like Moonstar says....everything about this grieving process takes lots of time. ( Moonstar..(((Hugs))) to you too, for your loss. I am so very sorry for your loss. I can't imagine what you are going through, either. You are also a very strong person.) Don't ever forget that you aren't alone. Never alone. We are all here for you.....as we have always been and as we will always be. We will help lift you up when you need support, give you shoulders to cry on when you can't pick your head up because the grief is just too much....and just be here to listen, when you need that. Shoot...maybe we will even be able to help coax a smile out, when the time comes, and you are ready for that, too. We are here, and we love you. We always have.

Come and talk, when you are ready, Sweetie. We are here. Ready and waiting.

I am sending you all of my love, and all of my good thoughts and prayers for your's and Bill's family. I hope that you are doing as well as possible? I do worry....and am. Thank you so much for taking the time to write to us here personally, and let us know. You are....well....just amazing. And so very special and dear to me...and to us all.

Love and ((Hugs))
Jose

HopeLivesHere · 11-26-2006, 05:23 PM

Hi Ada,

I am So sorry for what is happening in your life.
You & the family are in my heart and in my prayers.
I know this is difficult & I know how strong you
feel you have to be at a time like this. Try not to be too
strong but take some of that energy to take good care of yourself.

Love,
Hope

emilys gramma · 11-26-2006, 05:34 PM

you know i am sending tons of thoughts and big hugs to you........

i hope that you were able to see the sights with bills kids like you told me you were going to do on Thanksgiving...............

i will call you this evening to see how you are doing..........

i know it will be a very hard holiday season, but remember to take care of yourself..................

big huge gentle hugs to ya ada..................

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