I'm very sorry to hear that. You must be tough as nails cause if it were me I'd have fallen apart. Suzy and I are close to our 30th so I can see when your husband passed a part of you left with him. Very sad indeed. I'm glad you have your family for support. We have no children so to me we are walking a tight rope and it's one reason I'd like to see her family ralley around her. You are an inspiration dreambeliever. :)

Jim,
this is just a thought, but is it possible for you to engage your wife's family?
That would be like phone calls, get a feel for what they're going through in this tragedy?
Then, maybe (I don't know how close ya'll live to one another) even stopping in for a visit, then, get your wife to go with you?
I suppose that, you reaching out on the phone would be the first step.
But, one step at a time.

I'm not telling you what to do, like I said, just a thought...

It's clear that you're concerned, and a fine man / husband!
I wish the best for you.
And, your wife!

pete
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