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RSD ME 10-29-2015 06:12 AM

hi everyone. i was just wondering if you could pray for my brother again. he is in the very sick and is in the hospital. i am trying to help him but he is pushing me away and i don't know why. so i thought i could at least pray for him and ask my friends here at neurotalk if they would pray for him to get better too. thanks for all of your support. hugs to all.

eva5667faliure 10-29-2015 06:54 AM

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Originally Posted by RSD ME (Post 1175349)
thanks eva for your helpful advice. and i love the serenity prayer. it is one of my favorite prayers! thank you for reminding me of it. i am trying to do the best i can with my brothers situation taking it a day at a time, but it's hard. and being chronically ill myself with rsd and fibro and eno doesn't help. but i'm taking your advice and trying to accept that i cannot be the one who helps my brother to get help. it has to be up to him. i will always have my hand out for him to hold when he is ready to get the much needed help he needs. i just hope he makes it to that point. i hope and i pray every day.

Remember this
And also
Like myself
My daughter
My son
We had to get down on our knees
Addiction is just as painful as the physical pain we feel
Only
To have lost the privilege
To be a part of life on life's terms
I rather say
Life on Gods terms
We ARE given free will
I will pray for you and your brother
And for all the addicts out there
God bless
Here to lean on
Love
Me

EnglishDave 10-29-2015 08:20 AM

RSD ME,

I am sure there will come a point where your brother turns to you and realises he needs the support you offer. It is hard, walking that self-destructive path, to admit you need help and harder to reach out to family.

You are doing everything you can and everything right. Just wait in hope and keep praying as we will with you.

Dave.

DejaVu 10-29-2015 08:31 PM

(((((( RSD ME and Brother )))))
 
Hi RSD ME,

You are an amazingly loving sibling to your brother.:)
Much love and ongoing prayer for you and for your brother!

Thanks for asking for support.
:hug:
DejaVu

St George 2013 11-02-2015 11:11 AM

Dear RSD ME
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by RSD ME (Post 1180362)
hi everyone. i was just wondering if you could pray for my brother again. he is in the very sick and is in the hospital. i am trying to help him but he is pushing me away and i don't know why. so i thought i could at least pray for him and ask my friends here at neurotalk if they would pray for him to get better too. thanks for all of your support. hugs to all.

Just wanted to check in and see how your brother is doing....and you ?

Praying for both of you.

Hugs :hug: :hug:

Debi

Littlepaw 11-03-2015 12:25 PM

Hi,

I am praying for healing for your brother and strength for you in your support of him. It is so often when we are unwell that we fall into the arms of those who love us and realize how much we need them. I hope that the gift of clarity comes to your brother out of this, to see the wonderful support he has in you and to take solace in it. May he get well soon.

Sending healing love, :hug:

RSD ME 11-05-2015 10:38 AM

hi everyone. thank you all so much for caring so much about me and my brother. i'm sorry i haven't responded sooner but i've been pretty sick this past week. my rsd pain is flaring because of all the stress and weather changes that i am dealing with right now. but i'm trying to rest as much as i can so i can feel a little better. my brother seems to be doing a little better. he is out of the hospital after eight days there because of health problems due to his addiction and seems to be in good spirits. i am praying that he will continue to get better and i thank all of you for your kindness, support and prayers too. i couldn't handle all this without the help of all of you. i hope and pray that you are all doing well and that you have a wonderful day. hugs to all.

DejaVu 11-14-2015 03:40 PM

Continued Love and Prayers for both you and your brother, RSD ME. I hope you are feeling better.
:hug:
Deja

RSD ME 12-25-2015 01:03 PM

hi everyone. i was wondering if you could pray some more for my brother. he is still struggling with his addictions and has now distanced himself from me. i worry about him every day but know now that i cannot help him until he is ready to get the help he needs to get better and be happy again. i am praying for him too every day and leaving it in God's hands now. i know He will help him find his way back to the brother I used to know. thanks for listening. i just needed to talk.
p.s. i still feel so guilty and lost because i told my brother that even though i will always love him, i had to distance myself from him until he was ready to get help. the stress on trying to deal with him was affecting my already compromised health and making me more sick causing me stomach problems. i miss him so much and want to reach out to him and tell him i still love him and wish him a Merry Christmas but i am afraid that he will stress me out again because of his addiction and mental illness. it's so hard and so painful to be dealing with this, especially during the holidays. i am very sad and miss my brother. i hope he returns to me one day as the person i once knew before addiction came into his life.

EnglishDave 12-27-2015 06:34 PM

I have been thinking about you and your brother over the past few days. Sorry things have taken this turn. Be patient, you do have to look after yourself first.

Dave.


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