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Old 08-04-2017, 05:01 AM #81
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Hi RSD,

My prayers are with your brother and all of the family. May God Bless All of You!

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My brother has stopped talking to me again. I am so sad he has been falling apart again but I am not going to try to contact him anymore. I get hung up on. So tired of it. Almost three years of this pain and then my own pain on top of it. I'm just so very tired. I pray for him always. Thanks for listening.
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Hi RSD ME,

I'm so sorry that your brother keeps hanging up on you, I can relate to it my father hasn't spoken to me in 12 yrs. since my parents broke up. I will pray for you and you may want to ask your brother how he would feel if either of you passed away and then knowing he did this to you cutting himself off. Would he be pleased. I read that in a daily devotion this past weekend. My prayers are with you and your brother and May God Bless the Both of You!

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RSD;

You've done all you can; now you have to be at peace with yourself. Keep praying for him.

My mother, whom I loved dearly, knew that not talking to me or hanging up hurt me badly.... Her love was "conditional".

In her own way she taught me to learn "Unconditional Love". I am grateful that I was able to see, by the Grace of God, the opposite. I have three adult children that always knew unconditional love, even as small children. They have passed that on to me as well as to others.

I believe you have shown your brother "unconditional love" as well. Hopefully, he will realize this while there is time.

Both of you are in my prayers.

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Haven't heard from my brother in two weeks. Very worried. I've left several messages but he is not calling back. I hope and pray he is okay. I'm so tired of this roller coaster ride. Going on almost three years now. Makes me so sad to see him like this. I hope he knows how much I love him. Holding onto to Faith that I will hear from him soon.
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Well I heard back from my brother only to have him hang up on me again. He asked for money. I said no because he wasn't being honest with me about what he's been doing. I am just trying to protect him because I love him. But he doesn't see it that way. I hope he knows how much I love him. I hope that he's okay. Back on the roller coaster. So very weary of this. Thanks again for listening. But I will keep praying for him. And any extra prayers would be greatly appreciated. Thanks.
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Well I heard back from my brother only to have him hang up on me again. He asked for money. I said no because he wasn't being honest with me about what he's been doing. I am just trying to protect him because I love him. But he doesn't see it that way. I hope he knows how much I love him. I hope that he's okay. Back on the roller coaster. So very weary of this. Thanks again for listening. But I will keep praying for him. And any extra prayers would be greatly appreciated. Thanks.
You are doing the right thing
Don’t second guess it
You are being strong for him and he hasn’t a clue
I am happy to know you had the strength
Prayer for you as painful as it is
I know
Oh how I know
Love
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Well I heard back from my brother only to have him hang up on me again. He asked for money. I said no because he wasn't being honest with me about what he's been doing. I am just trying to protect him because I love him. But he doesn't see it that way. I hope he knows how much I love him. I hope that he's okay. Back on the roller coaster. So very weary of this. Thanks again for listening. But I will keep praying for him. And any extra prayers would be greatly appreciated. Thanks.

Prayers are for you as well. Sometimes tough love can be difficult to deal with.
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