(((judy)))) big soft hugs

Yesterday I was a little down. I am doing a lot better today. The thing about the above situation is it is beyond my control. His mother who is also my friend believes that the drug rehab is a waste of time in that it just teaches a person "how to use drugs". Not sure about that. He was doing well and the time spent in rehab will interfer with his job and financial situation.

That is in the short of things. In God's long term plan though this might do him good if he can take advantage of it and allows God to work in his life. He is a Christian, but with a lot of issues.

Co-dependency is something I do not want to get into here, so am just asking you to pray for him and then I am leaving it with the Lord.

Thanks Cybil, you are a sweetheart with a caring spirit.

Love,
Judy

judy u r right about it being out ofyour control. those r his choice he makes and no body can make him change except him and god but if he dont choose what u think is right there is nothing u can do about it except love him and hopefully not judge him. we all make bad choices some times some times even on purpose because we can not help it but we dont want people to feel sad either because of our choices. ((((hugs))))

sending you a warm hug.........................

Daisymae

i am sad because i am going to miss summer and all the pretty flowers and birds. does the warm states have flowers all year grow?

Hi Cybil

yes, here in Florida we do have green and flowers and birds throughout the year

in fact, the winter time is our very best season here as summer is soooooo hot and hunid. But in winter we have temps in the 70s (often even 80s) and fresh cool nights that seldom go below the 50s Everyone loves it here in winter and it is also our main tourist season. Occasionally it gets cold, which for us is in the 30s by night and 50s by day

but come summer...........
that is when we wish we were in the northern climes

to bad u cant come live here in the summer and i live there for the winter

i am just not very ahppy lately and dont know what to do about it

(((Cybil))))

do you know about SAD=Seasonal Affective Disorder ?

It is a clinically recognised depression that many people suffer when the fall/winter season begins and is believed to be triggered by the change in sunlight
That, couple with the fact that some illnesses can also flare when the weather gets colder and more damp and dark, may well be at the root of your sadness

I know that it is recommended that those daylight lightbulbs be used to help, and also maybe get a heating pad or an old fashined hot water bottle to be able to snuggle..........brings much comfort!

That, and (((BIG HUGS))) from a friend who loves ya

hugs cheri my freind ((((hugs)))