Thank you for understanding my pain in having my family split. I have not seen a picture of my grandson, nor as I said allowed to be a part of my own family. When my dissibilites got so I could not handle the house or myself for matter, I moved in my best friend, a woman. Boy did I sin with that in my family. I am eternally damned for that. I was told to my face I am not welcome in their home without supervision...I am 59 yrs old, and I find that statement quite full of S_____. It hurt you bet. I can't get over it in fact, and that is part of the reason I don't know If I want to go on sometimes. I see about my surgery today. I do have council, a good therapist, and now I have this list. I already know I need to connect to people on this list to help me through it. My grandson turns one on the 29th should I send a card even though it will be put in the garbage.?

I would Virginia. I know that you'll probably never know if he got the card or not, but you will know that you sent it, and I think that's important.

Don't stoop to their level. Continue to love your grandson even though you've not yet met.... and one day hopefully, your love and perseverance may be rewarded.

There are no guarantees Virginia, but that goes for everything in life. Put your trust in the Lord and pray that things will change for the better in the not too distant future.

I wish you well.