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Originally Posted by tkrik (Post 361024)

Weave - Although I don't have any advice for you, I will certainly keep you in my prayers.:hug:

Weave, I'm sorry it has come to this for you, but the ray of hope never goes completely out.

Please find and meet with your local women's resource center to learn what kind of help is available to you. They have many, many contacts of all kinds and their whole mission is to help and empower women just like you.

Most of them work for God, just like me. :hug:

Thanks again for your kind words. I am too numb to say anymore.

WeaveHerr, I am so sorry you are going through so much trouble. Change is always so hard. But, God is always with you, and will guide your way. However, I see something that I think is a positive in your situation. You have the time to make good choices, to research your options, and land safely on your feet. I will keep you and your family in my prayers.:hug:

Thanks for your continued prayers, hugs, and kind words. I am surviving, some minutes better than others.

Echoing what Sandy said: "Don't give up on God; He hasn't given up on you". I tend to agree with you that therapy is not going to be the magic bullet here. You have already given it a lot of time. I suppose that, now, it is time for 'divide and conquer'... That is the practical approach when there are too many problems.

First, I would do (quoting Sandy again...) try to find a pro-bono lawyer. At the same time, or as soon as you can, make a Xerox copy of all your documents as well as your children's. Don't forget bank books, insurance policies or any othe important paper. You never know what you may need. This will also keep you occupied. Be proactive at this time.

Let your husband be in the basement and try to forget that he is there. I know easier said than done. Enjoy your kids and let them enjoy your company and share time and their life experiences (school, etc) in the kitchen. Make the best of what you have now. :grouphug:

Here. Too numb to say more.

((((((((Weave))))))))))

there is a song by Scott Krippayne that helps me focus on the Truth when I feel that God is distant

I pray it will encourage you and help you to remember that He can and does work ALL things together for good for His children, and that He loves you:hug:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NjxhaaBsWPw

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All who sail the sea of faith
Find out before too long
How quickly blue skies can grow dark
And gentle winds grow strong
Suddenly fear is like white water
Pounding on the soul
Still we sail on knowing
That our Lord is in control

Sometimes He calms the storm
With a whispered peace be still
He can settle any sea
But it doesn't mean He will
Sometimes He holds us close
And lets the wind and waves go wild
Sometimes He calms the storm
And other times He calms His child

He has a reason for each trial
That we pass through in life
And though we're shaken
We cannot be pulled apart from Christ
No matter how the driving rain beats down
On those who hold to faith
A heart of trust will always
Be a quiet peaceful place

Sometimes He calms the storm
With a whispered peace be still
He can settle any sea
But it doesn't mean He will
Sometimes He holds us close
And lets the wind and waves go wild
Sometimes He calms the storm
And other times He calms His child

Barely survived the weekend. He started moving to the basement.

We were scheduled to meet with our pastor this afternoon for a one- time- no- strings- attached- chat but it got changed to Monday. I so wanted that over by the weekend. DH plans to be moved out of our bedroom by midnight Friday. He is 99% packed now.