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Old 10-18-2008, 08:32 AM #1
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Shelley, how are things going?

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He destroyed a little piece of my DH and for that I will never forgive this man.
Shelley,

I hope you can rise above this someday soon. Do not allow this man's venom to poison you too. It's bad enough your DH has to carry around the memory of that day. I know it's hard to do, but I hope someday you'll both get past this. Try to consider the source and feel sorry for him. Your DH is a much better person than him. I hope he can find a new job soon.

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The boss is in effect dumping his crap on your husband.

I would urge you to listen to your husband and point out that now is the time to START to look for another job.

Somewhere in this horrible event, there will be some action in the future your husband can begin to do, that will change things for him and you.
I agree with MrsD. This guy does not deserve to have your husband's talent or presence in his business. I hope your DH will find a well run company that respects its employees to work for someday soon.

BTW, there are articles out there about dealing with difficult bosses. You might find some good ones to help your DH in the meantime.
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Shelley,

I've been where you are and all i can say is that I'm soo sorry that your hubby is being treated that way.
As a wife we feel helpless all we can do is be supportive .

Even though its really tough now that he will probably be finding a better job.


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Arrow document everything...

keep a journal and document every conversation and save every email.

If they are trying to force people to quit, without grounds, and cannot fire them, then this abuse will add up in the future.
Might lead to a wrongful termination suit, or whatever.

Writing it out, is also therapeutic... like a vent.

You need to get Snakes in Suits ASAP... it covers this aspect very well!

Good luck...my regards and support to both of you!
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hmmm.. hostile work place???
might be something to consider...

I'd get on record with his version of events that have transpired also...
so they don't think boss has the only version....
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Are there any video surveillance cameras,with voice recorders on them in the proximity of where they work? Just a idea. Could anyone else add to this? BF
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hmmm.. hostile work place???
might be something to consider...

I'd get on record with his version of events that have transpired also...
so they don't think boss has the only version....


This is exactly what I was thinking... Hostile work place....

Hubby needs to keep records of any conversation with his boss....

I will keep hubby (you too) and his boss in my prayers....


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I hope that your DH knows that it is not his fault. There's something wrong in his bosses heart. He's being bullied by someone who has authority over him. It's not right,and it's not fair.

I wish for you all to have the peace of God,that passes all understanding. I'm saying another prayer for your DH,and I can so relate to what he's going through. That boss may be jealous of your DH. I wish for you,and your DH to have that peace from God,and divine intervention. BF
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Shelly, I am heartbroken for you and DH. There is nothing worse than a bad boss and then to hear from your peers what's going on behind your back must be devastating to him. I am so sorry and wish we could help in some way.
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