I hope that your DH knows that it is not his fault. There's something wrong in his bosses heart. He's being bullied by someone who has authority over him. It's not right,and it's not fair.

I wish for you all to have the peace of God,that passes all understanding. I'm saying another prayer for your DH,and I can so relate to what he's going through. That boss may be jealous of your DH. I wish for you,and your DH to have that peace from God,and divine intervention. BF

There's also a post in Post Traumatic Stress Disorder about people who have been bullied at work in NeuroTalk close to the bottom of the posts. The thread is at the top of PTSD,and is the upper thread. It's called

Complex Post Traumatic Chronic Stress Disorder
and the thread starter was Sticky.

Is there a Department of Human Resources in the Company? I'm sending ((Hugs)) to your family. I'm so sorry that this is happening. Eight hours a day of this treatment is too much for anyone who has a big heart. BF

(((((((Shelley and dh)))))))))))

it must be so hard for your hubby even to go into work in this atmosphere.

praying for a door to open that will change the status quo and remove this stress from your lives so your hubby can do what he does best without the negative distractions

Hey Shelley! I am so sorry for not responding to your thread before this. But, I do want you to know that I am praying for your DH and hope that things work out for him. I feel so bad for you guys! Hopefully, the ''higher ups'' will use good judgement and keep DH and dump the negative Boss.

Thinking of you and your DH and sending hugs.

i know that with the uncertainty of the economic situation today the last thing you want to worry about is your job security ... i am so sorry that you and your husband are having to go through this ... frank and i will say prayers for you and your husband that everything works out in the end ... our father above knows the situation and already has a plan ... could be that things improve at the current job ... could be that there is another job out there that your husband is suppose to be doing ... don't know ... i just know that we may not understand why things happen when they do but there is a reason ... yeah i know ... it suckith cause we want to know the outcome, the why's, the what for's now ... be patient and think positive ... it will all work out in the end

first, major hugs and prayers for (((( SHELLEY & DH ))))))))
I hadn't been in the forums here for quite some time and when I get around to reading tonite..discover that shelley, you and husb have needed prayers for quite some time, I apologize for not knowing all this sooner.

Like others here have mentioned, I TOO can totally relate with what you and your husband are going through. Yrs ago my husband had a similar situation with his boss at that time. Every day I'd try to offer support to my husband as he would sit and say "He keeps telling me to eliminate the problems, well just give me the gun and I'll eliminate my problem". I thank GOD that we didn't OWN a gun at that time!!!! My husband ended up being fired from his job, but with the power of prayers, was only off work 2 wks before he started working at another similar company.

It is so difficult for us to "let go and LET GOD". We want it all, and we want it NOW!!! ha ha

Keep the faith dear, and God will provide all the needs. Continued prayers for you and your husband,




Marilyn

Shelly, I am heartbroken for you and DH. There is nothing worse than a bad boss and then to hear from your peers what's going on behind your back must be devastating to him. I am so sorry and wish we could help in some way.

I hoping that your DH has some peace of mind,and that his boss has ceased his attacks at least to a minimum. I'm concerned,and sending (((Hugs))). BF

(((Shelley and DH)))

In my 25 years that I've worked at the same place, I have had 3 VERY abusive bosses. One, the wife of the vice-president. One a chairman. And the other the director of a center. All 3 were equally abusive and bullying. All 3 times took a huge emotional and physical toll on me, AND friends and family.

Luckily for me, I work where I have good representation. Each time I ended up filing a grievance, one a lawsuit (the first one). The first boss had to leave his job, the 2nd was asked to retire (the wife of the vice-president) and the 3rd left her job.

These people have problems and should not be in a position of supervision of any kind. (The first one would even lock my office door behind him and start yelling and throwing things and punch me in the chest with his finger!!!)

Again, I was 'lucky' insofar as having a good union to back me up and an administration that wanted no more publicity (because they've already had enough due to harassing and bullying bosses).

I don't know what I'd do if I hadn't had that help. Your dh is in a miserable turmoil. It takes up your every waking hour, just as any major life event would.

Please add my prayers and positive thoughts for the best outcome.

How is your DH doing? I haven't forgotten. I wish that I could do something to help him. BF