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Old 03-08-2009, 10:41 AM #11
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((((((((((((DiMarie))))))))))))))

I pray you will be able to find a peace by releasing the heavy weight you have been carrying. Please know we are here for you. You are a precious caring person and we love you.
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My friend...
I am tearing up reading about the troubles your whole family is going through.
I hope and pray that something good will happen to lighten the load and lift your spirits soon.
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My youngest dd is online homeschooled but will rarely go out. No friends, no roller skating She was in a photo club with me and went to the 1 year anniversary dinner two weeks ago. But wanted to go right home. She is convinced she has a cancer, that a light outside or helicopter is Aliens, she freaks at shapes of shadows, I have to sleep with her in the livingroom as she can not stand to be conered in her bedroom. She is now a grownup beautiful 13 year old with below the waist length hair.
But she can not even let a dentist LOOK in her mouth with out fright or flight kicking in ripping off the dental bib and lunging off the chair. Will not take any medication but Childrens Tylenol, is just getting over Shingels...
That reminded me someone... ME !!!! I was just like that when I was 15... I read that was typical of a depressed person... I thought I had terminal cancer all the time... Poor little sweetie girl !!! I know how she is feeling !!! My thought are prayers are with her tonight...

Di, we so love you so much here.

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I understand how you feel and why, but, hum, you know, as hard as it is even for me to say it, we only have one life (sometimes I even say "thank God it is only one !). You know me, you have read my posts... I can be veeeerrrryyyyy blue sometimes... so, it is hard for me to give advices like this, but please, try to enjoy every minute you are here... try to see it like this:

sooner or later, you will reunite again with all your loved ones... and, we dont want you to arrive to Heaven with them saying "Wait, Am I already here ? Im glad to see you, but know I miss the Earth..." If you know what I mean... Gosh I now it is hard... I know we dont want to be here anymore sometimes BUT, BUT, BUT... I still beleive we are here for something and that everything happens at the right time, SO, try to follow a little shining light day by day like, enjoy your son, your little daughter, your cats... a simply tree... minute, by minute...

In the mean time, Im going to send you even MORE hugs !!!



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How is your son doing ?

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Me too Di Marie. You've been on my mind and I hope you're doing OK.

I'm so sorry that you've gone through so much, and I don't know if it helps or not, but I wanted you to know that I care.

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Hi Di Marie~ I am so very very sorry for all of the losses you and your family have had to endure. Your post touched my heart so much. I am praying for you all and am asking God to give you strength to get through all of this.

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After reading what you wrote i feel very sad for your loss i hope you and yours can make it over this and hold each outher tight as you can.You have to go on your other son needs you sooooooo very much and your husband to i can not takr your pain away but only say how truly sorry i am to hear your pain i hope in time you all are able to smile again peace be with you and yours Sherry
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We are in shock, it is devestating all over again. After losing our De, his full sister, now he lost his brother. There were only 9 months between them, the reason my ex and I divorced. He grew up in school with ex's two other boys, but his father did not have a close relationship with our children. Holidays only when they were older my kids would call to go down...if they were available. But the boys always were brothers.

Just before dawn, after a night out, the boy made it less then a mile from his home and hit a tree. My son's sister in law called, but has not called back,
It is just such a heart ache for me to lose these children and to have my son and his father lose two now. There is also a 1 1/2 year old left behind.

I was just beginning to bring myself from deep depresion and now this just made my heart feel like it is being ripped out.

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Sherry my goodness what a loving person you are. In your time of such a horrific emotional time, you share your kindness and love for my family. It was an emotionally draining time and so emotional, but here we have such great supporting friends.

My ex husband seems to be the hardest affecte. His second wife turned away from me and I gave her my shoulder to be there understanding her loss like no one could in the family. She did not answere. I had so many emotions from the loss of our daughter (ex and mine) I had all the hurt open wounds for these children that we never should have to bury.

But I read your post, and from my police work, I know how the victims of abusive men are affected. I am so sorry that your family is in this emotional truma.
It sounds trite, but if there is anything we can do for you, please ask. They prayers are unconditional.
But if you have the courts address and the name of a local newspaper there I would love to send letters.
PM or post the information and I will give any support I can.
Seems to be how I function best, to keep busy and supporting in any manner I can.
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I am so very sorry to read about this do know when ever you want to talk we are here for you i am so very deeply sorry stay strong Sherry
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