From time to time each of us has had to deal with sorrow. Enough of us on this SCS forum have suffered tragedy, that one wonders whether the impact leaves us with more pain than we usually know. During those times, my physiatrist has spoken of emotional pain as capable of inducing more severe nerve pain just because the body is trying to cope.

You all have been aware that Cleo and I have been excitedly awaiting the birth of our first grandchild. Our Army son and his wife went yesterday anticipating the full excitement of the revelatory 18 week ultrasound that would show a blossoming healthy moving baby of a certain gender.

Instead, they called Cleo and me bearing tears and sobs. The ultrasound had instead shown they would not have a baby as too many things have gone wrong with the development including as well Turner's Syndrome. Our little precious granddaughter to be will not live. I share this openly because after the crush of yesterday's dissappointment and the flood of tears, today we have been flooded with prayers of support from church friends and family. You, too, are part of our extended group of friends and there are times when we certainly seem like a great big family right here in the ethernet.

I wrote a verse for our little granddaughter, and share it with you below. Tonight, I do imagine among other things, this may be why Rrae has been unseen as we PM shared the news. RRae was the first to invite me here and she has cared so much for all of us, I just felt she needed to know privately because she, too, has had sadness in her family recently. So, we all pray endearing prayers for one another, for Rrae, for our Son and Daughter-in-Law who will travel anyway to visit us for Easter. We will worship together and lift up little Autumn in our prayers.

Thank you all for your caring loving way of being HERE for one another.
Here is the verse:

Autumn's Song
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Pools of tears surround us now
we look for answers, asking "how?"
Our God is true, oh THIS we KNOW
and yet we grieve and tears we sow.
We learned today a child would not be
our grandchild, first, she has to leave
before we held her and saw her smile
before her mother and father had child
she came into our family
so much joy to bring, we wanted to see.
But this the child God wraps in his arms
her smile known to Him this child who is charmed
to be immediately with Jesus in heaven's embrace
our Autumn is blessed specially with His grace.
We know there will be pain and sorrow down here
as all of us miss her and the joy of her dear.
One day we will see her in heaven when we
arrive in that place of such joy there to be.

All cried out,
Mark56

...........................

Rae

I am so sad to learn this. my thoughts are with you and your family at this sad time.

The poem is just lovely and very moving.

Dear Mark, words cannot express my deepest sympathies for you and all your family, your precious son and daughter in law. Im am so sorry to read this news. Life can be very cruel indeed.....my prayers and thoughts are with you every step of the way

Jackie

I am so sorry Mark! sending you lots of hugs

I'm so sorry to hear this. The verse was lovely

I am so sorry Mark. x x x ((hug))

((((((((MARK AND CLEO )))))))))
Your Grand Daughter will be living forever in your hearts being loved and thought of ...very touching verse. Sending comfort to you and your family.
PEACE
BMW

Mark, so sorry, my daughter has had this happen twice and I understand you and your family's pain. I wear a necklace with two charms to keep those little souls close to my heart. My faith allows me to believe that someday soon I will get the opportunity to meet these little ones and tell them how much nana loves them.

Lisa, you are so right on the same page with us at this time. We have had the benefit of this week now drawing to a close to hug, talk, cry, smile, hug some more, laugh a little, that we KNOW, we truly know that God will show us our little ones one day in paradise. Cleo and I even look forward to that time when we will meet the twin of our daughter, since one twin miscarried part way through the pregnancy. In the arms of God, there we hope one day to be.

All of you have been so very thoughtful, kind, supportive, precious in your sharing, and my family is so very appreciative.

Blessings upon all of you,
Mark56