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Mark56 01-27-2014 09:26 AM

Oh Dear Pam
 
I feel such sadness you have been horribly let down by a system which purports to be based upon "first do no harm."

How CAN this be!?! It is wrong!

:mad:

eva5667faliure 01-27-2014 07:57 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by PamelaJune (Post 1046567)
2012 A few hours after my grand mal seizure the nurse is speaking to my husband.

"She is OK, she has just had a panic attack".:confused:

The following day after the seizure, I'm yet to be diagnosed with 3 thoracic vertebrae fractures and 2 rib fractures sustained during the seizure. I'm telling the nurse the pain in my upper back is on a pain level of 8. My IPad which I use to read books on is on the hospital bedside table.

"You don't look that bad, and you're playing games on your computer".:mad:

The next morning, still in hospital and still undiagnosed, I'm wanting to speak to my PM.

"He is a busy man, too busy to be bothered by you just wanting an injection because you say your pain is on a score of 9. You should take some panadol and deep breaths and get yourself home".:mad::mad:

6 weeks later, finally diagnosed with fractures and my normal GP is on holiday, I'm at the surgery to get a prescription for pain medication and seeing a stand in GP.

"You are just a drug addict... I don't know why your upset and angry with me".:(:(

2001 I don't know why I get upset, I should know better. I was in the London Clinic hospital and crying in extreme pain, begging for something for it. The nurse who gave me the injection told me the next day she was instructed to

"give an injection of water" as the then attending surgeon thought I was faking the pain. That night at about 1am I haemorrhaged.:(:(

1994 I had my 2nd spinal fusion and for the first time titanium plates and pedical screws put in. I was in constant pain about 6 months later back n forth to the hospital and doctors. I was referred to a psychologist and my husband had to attend with me, the psych told my husband

"She is doing all this to get your attention she isn't really in pain, she just wants you to do more in he house" :mad:

1996, My husband finally said, I don't believe she would do all this and can we at least get an X-ray. X-ray taken and bone is stronger than titanium, the plates were snapped clean in half as were the screws, they had to operate to remove the hardware and as soon as it was taken out I could feel the relief.

So, given my experiences and these are just a few of them, there are many many more, I now have little faith in the carers and those who are practicing in the field of medicine. We have been badly let down on so many occasions, it's little wonder that our family members or employers struggle to believe us!!!

oh hell no
you went through all that crap
and still looked at you like you are nuts
oh my dear friend you ARE not alone
i am beside myself
i am so sorry you had to endure that crap
on top of all the other REAL THINGS GOING ON
SHAME ON THEM ALL
ti inject WATER INTO YOU

and now please tell me
you control you
as you are the only one that
knows your body like NO other human

if i hear one more ***king time how great i look
especially when my pain is up there 7,8, whatever
the ***king number is
to late the monster has just only beginning to roar

all i do is put lipstick on

i don't get it

i had a hiccup in my road to two failed cervical
neck 5/6 6/7

lumbar all screwed up

point i found a lump in my right breast
positive cancer
had both breasts taken off
had saline implants
my surgeon refuses to see
my left breast has migrated through the sutures
so it hangs with no crease
all other doctors family members see what i see
now
HOW CAN YOU MAKE A DOCTOR SEE WHAT HE DOES
NOT WANT TO

sure i could get it fixed
have sutures that gives me a crease under my balloons
i am just to afraid to go under
so much gone wrong
with my neck to my breasts
i am ***king done

and i am going to see a fourth
chief of orthosurgeon to see the progression
of my failed second cervical surgery
i developed a hematoma that ***ked
up all the work he did
the drain was not doing its job
as he too failed me and changed my
life forever
oh it certainly was the hematoma that
botched all of his so called art work

oh how i am angry
angry as we are not the ones
with "head" issues or a drug addict
shame
shame on them ALL

i think this might belong in
"a place to vent"
you just confirmed
all i too went through

peace be with you
sending with love and hugs

Mark56 01-28-2014 01:35 AM

Hi Eva
 
Glad you thought this one belonged in Place to Vent. :)

But honest reflection on what we endure is needed elsewhere as here also. :)

eva5667faliure 01-28-2014 07:44 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Mark56 (Post 1046814)
Glad you thought this one belonged in Place to Vent. :)

But honest reflection on what we endure is needed elsewhere as here also. :)

thanks
i needed that
biting my lip
some things are just not right
and really shouldn't happen to
us
as you already know
i was violated as transport
thought i was sleeping
in my room two nurses and transport
all three one 1 female nurse ready to
leave her shift
1 male nurse coming on would have
been my nurse
then the transport person a male
while getting my bed ready for me
Mr. transport thought it was alright
to lift my sheet at the foot of my gurney
and view my naked body
well
female nurse says
"don't you get enough of that at home"
and then my head pops out
and the rest
i am sure you can imagine

some things we just should not have to
endure

as i no you understand


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