Oh god, please help me. This isn't the first time nor will it be the last that she tries to kill herself.

She has ruined what was a wonderful relationship,with her boyfriend. She beats him up. He holds her and doesn't hit back.

She then went behind his back and had sex with her boss. Marks has finally had enough and put this on facebook so this guy's girlfriend can see so I doubt she will have a job.

She threatened my other daughter who went to their house,with a knife last night. Hols called the police as Hannah was wrecking the house.

They had to cuff her as she bit and kicked them.

I have just had to tell the police she is not welcome here.

I am in bits. I don't think she will be happy till she is dead.

We know the destructive bent in one of the children we bore. This one threatened me with mortal harm at one time and lived as though hate filled the veins. A runaway before reaching majority, this one became equally unwelcome to our home for a long time for we feared both them and friends, and I do not think I would use mortal deadly force against one of my children. I know very well how, but it is not in my heart.

We prayed and still do for the spirit of this one, as they do not follow the way of their upbringing. We fear for them. We have had to give them and their very safety over to God, for it is HE who may bring full healing to the whole of our family, as this now becomes the prayer I lift for your family Saffy.

Healing of body AND spirit,
Mark56zzzz and

Oh, dear Saffy, I'm so sorry that you are going through this heartbreak with your daughter. I know you must feel helpless and at a loss as to what to do. My heart and prayers go out to you and your family. I'll be praying that she will get the help she needs or come to her senses and realize that her life doesn't have to be a mess. I don't know what else to say, except that I wish there was some way to fix this and make the pain and distress go away. You will remain in my prayers and thoughts.

Gentle hugs,
Jan

my friend saffy

you have your share of pain

GOD
GRANT ME THE SERENITY
TO ACCEPT THE THINGS I CAN
NOT CHANGE

THE COURAGE TO CHANGE
THE THINGS I CAN

AND THE WISDOM
TO KNOW THE
DIFFERENCE

and praying everyday
the unthinkable
i take seriously
as my father
committed suicide
1980
and fearing my son
might cry out
not want to really leave
and be found to late
how ******up would that be
oh i'm sure some persons would think
this woman is whacked
i assure you i am not
this is a fear
he has expressed it
i'm going to stop here

for you my dear
here for you

may God hear our prayers

someone who cares

We went through some of that with my beloved's youngest daughter...right after I married her mom. She was a terror and I often feared for our safety. She began cutting and running away, too. We stepped in, big time - had her put into to a Residential Treatment Center and they worked with her for about a month. Expensive, yes...but it helped. I don't know that your situation would warrant such intervention...there are so many variables and no two families are the same.

Fast-forward to today: The 'girl' is now a nearly 28-yr-old sweet young lady that has born one of our granddaughters. She is very close to her mom, now, and even she and I get along extremely well.

Thank you everyone. The sad thing is, mark still loves Hannah but he knows he's come to the limit.

For all your prayers and advice, I thank you ..

Please God, be with Hannah and keep her strong
To remember that life is short
Should be fun
And to be a better person.

I'm so sorry.

I don't really have any advice. I wish I did.

I just wanted to let you know I was thinking of you.

Hugs are surrounding your precous family at this time Saffy, and Kaye? Your very presence here right now is exactly what the "doctor" ordered, as you are sharing your Caring!! Beautiful.

Saffy, we all join in your prayer for Hannah.
hoping she may open her eyes and see
life which is God's is the place to be,
unburdened with anger and
filled with blessings of love,
we pray she see your
"mother's love"
unconditionally,

All of us

Praise be .. She went to the doctor today who diagnosed pmt. he is also checking her thyroid glad with a blood test. Has given her sleeping pills and anti depressants which she desperately needs.

She is now waiting to hear from her ex boyfriend as he has asked her if she would like to walk the dogs with him.

It may be nothing but I'm praying ....

She has also admitted that when she hits iphim it's because of alcohol. Admitting it is a step forward

Dear Saffy, this is such good news! Maybe our all agreeing in prayer has helped somewhat....guess we should continue. I sure hope your daughter will accept the doctor's advice and take the meds she needs. Yes, admitting that she has a problem is HUGE! Good for her! Praying for you, too, that you will have strength and hope and even some joy in your heart today.

Sending hugs and prayers,
Jan