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03-17-2010, 07:50 PM | #3 | |||
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Hey guys just a suggestion, I have MS and with that comes the dreaded numbness, and even worse the tinglings. Anytime there is any kind of rubbing in that area it is followed with the 9 volt battery on the tongue feeling. This lasts for about half an hour after we...
Now with mine the drive is there. I am a 29 yr old woman who has been on an emotional roller coaster, believe me the drive is there. I can suggest finding other ways to please one another, especially if intercourse if painful. For me sex is more of a mental thing than a physical. Don't get me wrong I enjoy the physical most of the time too. But there are times such as when I am completly numb down there that I try to find other ways to satisfy my DH2B. I don't suggest numbing creams or lubes, basically it is oil and lidocaine and really it is not as much fun if numb. But if you find that oral or exterior stimulation is pleasurable as opposed to penetration then you may want to experiment on extended foreplay sessions. As others have mentioned, meds play a big role in sex drive as do hormones. There isn't much that can be done about spinal injuries, but hormones can be replaced.
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01-31-2012, 06:41 PM | #4 | ||
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well OK Being Male I will join...
My wife and I have enjoyed a healthy sex life up until about two years ago. I have always had some lower back pain but ignored it as just work related. well, having sex just got to be too much work. I have absolutely no problem with ED, but just could never cross the finish line. My wife blamed herself as I could not tell her what was wrong...I did not know! recently I had several spinal MRI's that showed extreme problems. My cervical was just fused 8 weeks ago, and my lumbar which is causing all my "problems" is next. I have a lumbar spine that is in desperate need of repair, causing alot of nerve damage from my waist down. Doctor said it's amazing I don't have a ED problem. this sure does put a strain on the marraige though. |
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02-09-2012, 12:00 PM | #5 | ||
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yeah, i have numbness in my penis since an injury that happened to it in 2006. i have scar tissue down there. i can feel the scar tissue. im seriously numb down there. iv been to a neurologist but he said he cant detect any nerve damage from the mri iv taken. a drug called xiaflex is going to come out later this year that's supposed to eliminate scar tissue, and im really hoping it will allow my nerves to come back. its really hard to overcome this numbness, sometimes i feel like i cant take it anymore. im pretty much mentally exhausted, iv been numb for about 6 years, and im 25 now. i think my only hope for my nerves to come back may be through this injection called xiaflex...it's just so hard to handle the thought that the drug not working and il have to live the rest of my life with a numb penis. iv been praying every morning and every night. I feel like i cant even be close to my girl friend because of this horrible numbness, so i just push her away because i don't wanna bring her into my horrible life. how do u handle it? every time i touch myself flaccid or erect im so numb down there. even when i wake up im instantly reminded im numb even if i wake up with an erection. it makes life so much harder. i feel like nobody can help me and im so scared that the cure thats coming out wont even give me back my feeling. is life really worth living?
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