No, those symptoms don't sound like any of mine. I have normal size everything. Facial hair, body hair, normal sized private part although I do a a varicose veins on one testicle but I went to the urologist for that. I have no problem with masturbation or getting erected at at the initial "turn on". And had no problems at all with my long term girlfriend or before that. It's just recently over the past two years where it's like my anxiety and panic gets in the way before sex and I overthink things.. And lose my erection. I feel that it's all mental