Please tell me that SOMEONE on here has had these procedures together!

I'm brand new on here, but really crying out for some answers here. I've been recliner bound for quite some time due to having horrible back pain and bladder cramping. I am supposed to be scheduling my surgery in the next few weeks, and I've heard some horrible things about vault suspension surgery along with cystocele and rectocele repairing.

Has your sex life returned to normal? Do you have any problems after having this surgery?

I'm really scared about having it done, but at the same time I don't want to be recliner bound either.

Any thoughts are welcome.
Thanks so much!