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View Poll Results: Define intimacy and name two people that you have been intimate with. | ||||||
Physical intimacy | 1 | 100.00% | ||||
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Spiritual intimacy | 0 | 0% | ||||
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Friendship intimacy (sharing secrets, hugs) | 1 | 100.00% | ||||
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Family intimacy (closeness to family members) | 0 | 0% | ||||
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03-05-2011, 07:50 AM | #1 | |||
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My 16 yr old daughter brought home a Review packet for her Health/Reproductive Class. She didn't feel comfortable completing the information by herself, so she did ask for our help. There were several questions that I felt were vague, out of line and just plain wrong. We helped her complete the packet, indicating answers that we were together on as a family, I also informed the teacher on the "sheets" my opinion and how we completed as a family and signed it so that they would know that I had reviewed and helped. I also notified her, the principal and the president of the school board via email what we had done, and my displeasure with many of the vague, out of line questions. I'll post the #1 question that brought the most concern and I'd like to get others opinions. The teacher did take things out on my daughter, but she only has 3 more days of class with this "teacher", so I told her to do the best she can and if she feels uncomfortable or singled out again, to ask nicely twice to be excused to go to the office to call home and on the third time if refused, to just politely say excuse me and walk out of the class and go directly to the office and call. So, here's the post, and I would appreciate your comments, and will provide the teacher's answer after I have several responses.
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03-05-2011, 07:56 AM | #2 | |||
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Please keep in mind that this is called a "REPRODUCTIVE HEALTH REVIEW SHEET", also - all questions on this sheet related to sex education and STDs (now called STIs).
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03-05-2011, 12:35 PM | #3 | |||
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The question you posted seemed confusing to me...is it my cog fog or is the question not clear?
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03-05-2011, 12:44 PM | #4 | |||
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No, Debbie, it is very vague. It would depend on the age of the person answering the question. And also their own personal definition of "intimacy". There can be lots of different definitions of "intimacy". I would not want my child to have to answer questions like these.
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03-05-2011, 01:03 PM | #5 | |||
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I also have a problem with another question she had on there regarding where a mom could drop off her baby and not have any problems. To me, this is encouraging and giving these kids and "option out" of a situation that is not one to be taken lightly. Obviously, a woman (even a teenager) has 9 months to try and figure out whether they want to keep the baby or give the baby up for adoption. If they want to be adults, to do adult things, why not teach them that they are not prepared for certain situations instead of encouraging them by giving them another option. Sorry if it seems confusing, but this is exactly how the question was posed without the poll answers. I put the possible answers there to show where the teacher was headed, but lacked to use the correct wording. Without the poll answers, I took the question in the context of being intimate and listing "partners" (2), not as being special friends. |
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03-05-2011, 01:19 PM | #6 | |||
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I think lots of other parents will probably chime in on this once they know what's going on. I can't believe the school system is even opening this can of worms.
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