hey, everyone!

Can't take living with my ex anymore. Just kicked him out for the last time. He causes too much chaos, and stress in my life. I need for things to be orderly, and peaceful in order to get and stay healthy. I've still been helping support him. But, no more. He's out this Friday, for good. I just can't allow him to take advantage of me anymore. I'm finally, going to live my own life. For me. Enough is enough! I feel really good about this decision. Don't know why it took me so long. But, it's finally going to be over. I'm not doing one more thing for him. No rides, no cigarrettes, no money, nothing. He's finally going to be completely responsible for himself. He's a 31 year old teenager. Well, he can figure out real fast, how to be an adult. Time to grow up. He's gonna be forced to.

Peace and Love,
Cgirl

i really have to say...you go girl!!!

if you can put new locks on the doors,and lots of peace to ya. Sue

good for you CG !!

it seemed that the downside to him being there was far outweighing any ups and I really think this is going to be sooooo much better for you

My ex, I'll give him that. When, my illness is kicking my butt, he does comfort,and support me. But, more importantly, the stress from being taken advantage of by him and disrespected just causes me to have these symptoms. I'm not saying, that it is his fault that I become ill. It's just that the chaos he brings into my life, is not worth the little bit of emotional support I get when this chaos has caused more symptoms. I especially, can't take it at times like now. When, i'm transitioning to a new med for my illness. I need some support, but more than that, I need for things to be orderly, equitable, and peaceful in order for me to make a full, and speedy recovery. I tried, to calmly explain this to him last night, he simply did not like what I had to say, so he walked away from the conversation, not allowing me to finish my thoughts. I tried, to regain his attention 3 times, and when he did respond, it was a smart remark. That, to me was extremely, disrespectful. I thought to myself, if I am still helping to support him somewhat, financially, then the least he can do is make my life a little easier when I am having symptoms, and by all means, hear me out. I was perfectly willing, when I started the conversation, to let him continue to stay, and continue helping him, although it was causing me alot of stress to be in the role of "mother" so to speak, but when he attempted to take control of a perfectly reasonable conversation on my part-- by ending it because it was too uncomfortable for him, I realized that I just don't have to, and don't want to live this way any longer. I told him he was on his own. I am giving him untill his payday to find a place. I don't even care anymore if anyone thinks that I'm being unfair. The way I see it, he has been so utterly unfair to me over the last almost 8 years. Now, the shoe is on the other foot. Sorry, for the rant, ramble, just had to get it out.

Peace and Love,
Cgirl