mel I was getting the same feeling about the grandma, perhaps she is part of the problem, like i said becareful dont get dragged too far into it

Not to worry. We are not that kind of friends. I see her only occasionally when we run into each other. Our kids went to school together ALL THOSE YEARS AGO.

Never figured her to be so controlling, but I guess when you have to step in and take charge, there's nothing else some moms can do. And especially when there's a baby. I mean, if the parents can't afford the diapers, and baby food, and furniture, thank god that some parents can step in and help.

But keeping in real here!!! This daughter SHOULD HAVE NEVER GOTTEN PREGNANT, let alone on purpose. That kind of thinking just boggles the mind.

It's all enabling if you ask me. They know they will be rescued, so they do what they want.