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Old 06-12-2008, 12:18 PM #1
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Default Best advice you ever got

After responding to another thread and sharing the best advice I ever got, I thought I'd like to hear what each of you consider to be the best advice you were ever given.



The best advice I ever got? I went to a clergyman and rattled on and on how my son would go to jail if I didn't intervene, blah blah blah. He just sat there and smiled. When I finally shut up and asked him what to do, he gave me the words of advice that I would keep leaning on: "Just love 'em."

I did and I do. Just love 'em. I backed off and let my four kids make their mistakes and learn from them, just like I was allowed to do when I was a young person.
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My Dad:

Apply the Law of Proportionality to your life:

You have two ears and one mouth, so listen twice as often as you speak.
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Victor, you have a very wise father. So, did you always listen to his good advice?
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It's really a tie,

If you want friends, first, be a friend.

Buy low, sell high.

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This was from a dear friend....

"Don't be afraid to ask for help.
Get the help you need.
Do it for yourself because if you do it for someone else... it won't mean a thing to you in the long run."



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My Dad was good for pithy sayings.

"Don't let your mouth write a check that your butt can't pay for"

"When someone/something knocks you down, get back up and hit them/it harder"

"Close mouth. Open ears. Engage brain"

"If your friend stuck their head in the toilet, would you follow them?"

I always hated the last one!

I'd give anything to hear him say it again.
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What to teach your children about money:

How to earn it
How to save it
How to spend it
And how to SHARE it
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My Dad said, never be afraid to admit you''re wrong in anything - choices, jobs, life, etc. Start over.
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