Originally Posted by Sarah Mae

That's exactly what I am doing--telling the truth.

I was advised to say that I will be paying rent.. and I will be. There's no lie in that.

I haven't been able to pay rent because I have no income.. but my mom and I have already made an agreement that I would stay here for free, but as soon as I had a source of income, that I would pay rent and some of the bills. It's just me and her here, and my half would be about $300. While I won't get that much from SSI, I was told to suggest $200 as an amount, and asked my mom if it would be okay if I gave her the $200 a month and then paid one of the big bills. Our two biggest are the internet/cable bill and the electric bill. Both range from $100-150 a month. So I would be paying less than half of the mortgage, and half of the major bills (not including her personal bills, such as her cell phone and credit cards).

If I wasn't going to give her the rent, or if I wasn't going to pay for a bill, I wouldn't tell them that I would. I would never lie about all of this because I know you can get in a lot of trouble--and there is absolutely no reason to lie.

But I am just taking what was suggested by the lady I spoke with and using that as a guide as to how to split up the major bills (mortgage, electric, and internet/cable).

Originally Posted by FriendshipUSA

thanks for the links Janke!

I am new to SSI and somewhat new to chat rooms. I just now realized your response included links. The links have great information! It will take us sometime to digest it (understand it).

My wife called the SSI. They recommended to fill out the application on line prior to meeting with them. Our meeting is scheduled late next month. I assume he needs to be at the appointment or can my wife and I represent him? Any recommendations what paperwork to bring with us?

thanks

Originally Posted by Sarah Mae

When I applied for SSI, I never actually met with anyone, but I did have a phone interview.

It was important to have this information:

-my bank account, since they asked if I would like direct deposit if I was awarded SSI

-a complete set of medical records with diagnosis, notes from the doctor, surgeries/procedures, and medications

-a basic summary of how my disabilities prevent me from "normal" activities, such as caring for myself, driving, and working (this will come into play later on when you fill out the function report, but it never hurts to have it on hand in case you get nervous and can't get the words out correctly)

Good luck. It can be a very long process--some have waited years and have gone through many denials. I was just approved yesterday. I wish you the best!