advertisement
Reply
 
Thread Tools Display Modes
Old 02-04-2015, 03:48 PM #11
Mz Migraine Mz Migraine is offline
Member
 
Join Date: Mar 2010
Posts: 496
10 yr Member
Mz Migraine Mz Migraine is offline
Member
 
Join Date: Mar 2010
Posts: 496
10 yr Member
Default

Quote:
Originally Posted by echoes long ago View Post
i wouldnt recommend going in too well dressed or made up if you are a woman. be yourself, how you normally dress.
I wouldn't go that far. I am normally dressed in sweatsuits or shorts, flip flops depending on the weather.

I don't know about other states/cities, but in N.J., ALJ hearings are normally held inside of court houses or a building set up like one.

My attorney gave me a list of dos & don't in preparing me for the ALJ hearing. #1 was that YOU will be appearing in front of a JUDGE. Dress appropriately. FIRST IMPRESSIONS LAST.....







P.S. I am old school (Baby Boomer), so I know how to "dress" for court.
21st century babies who are born w/an iPhone in one ear, an iPod out the other & a computer shooting out where the sun don't shine come to court like they are auditioning for a reality show.
__________________
"Invisible" Disability
.
Mz Migraine is offline   Reply With QuoteReply With Quote

advertisement
Old 02-04-2015, 07:02 PM #12
echoes long ago's Avatar
echoes long ago echoes long ago is offline
Senior Member
 
Join Date: May 2008
Location: new york
Posts: 1,579
15 yr Member
echoes long ago echoes long ago is offline
Senior Member
echoes long ago's Avatar
 
Join Date: May 2008
Location: new york
Posts: 1,579
15 yr Member
Default

my hearing was in a regular office building. i dont think any in downstate new york at least are held in court houses.

i stand by my comment to be yourself. be polite of course and respectful, but dont make yourself appear to be worse than you normally are but also dont downplay the limitations you have. dressing sharply is bad advice in my opinion. first impressions do matter and if you look too good you may have shot yourself in the foot. putting up a good appearance is something that a person may be able to do for a short period of time on a particular day but not be able to do day in day out over a long period and i think that is the point
echoes long ago is offline   Reply With QuoteReply With Quote
"Thanks for this!" says:
LOOKIELOO (02-04-2015)
Old 02-04-2015, 07:42 PM #13
LIT LOVE LIT LOVE is offline
Magnate
 
Join Date: Mar 2010
Posts: 2,304
10 yr Member
LIT LOVE LIT LOVE is offline
Magnate
 
Join Date: Mar 2010
Posts: 2,304
10 yr Member
Default

Quote:
Originally Posted by echoes long ago View Post
my hearing was in a regular office building. i dont think any in downstate new york at least are held in court houses.

i stand by my comment to be yourself. be polite of course and respectful, but dont make yourself appear to be worse than you normally are but also dont downplay the limitations you have. dressing sharply is bad advice in my opinion. first impressions do matter and if you look too good you may have shot yourself in the foot. putting up a good appearance is something that a person may be able to do for a short period of time on a particular day but not be able to do day in day out over a long period and i think that is the point
The advice I've generally seen is not to dress up as if you're going to court and not to dress too casually. A happy medium should be appropriate.
LIT LOVE is offline   Reply With QuoteReply With Quote
"Thanks for this!" says:
LOOKIELOO (02-04-2015)
Old 02-09-2015, 06:48 PM #14
allentgamer's Avatar
allentgamer allentgamer is offline
Senior Member
 
Join Date: Sep 2006
Location: Toon Town USA
Posts: 1,023
15 yr Member
allentgamer allentgamer is offline
Senior Member
allentgamer's Avatar
 
Join Date: Sep 2006
Location: Toon Town USA
Posts: 1,023
15 yr Member
Default

I went to two hearings. The first was your worst nightmare....it lasted all of about 15 minutes. The judge thumbed through my medical records, looked at me and said denied. He looks healthier than me.

The attorney brought up the medical records, and then said that even the social security doctor agreed about being disabled. The judge then said, he isnt accepting the medical records as evidence....denied. It was over just like that.

The second one was a bit longer, maybe 45 minutes. It was a 2 1/2 year wait to get it, but well worth the wait when you cannot work. The judge asked me what I was doing here? I didnt have an answer, so I said I cant work, and have to be here.

She smiled and said....you shouldnt be here because you got railroaded the first time. Then she asked me when did I become disabled....be honest she says. I told her in 2000 when I was hurt, but continued to try and work for another year and a half. Then she asked what date did you stop working. I told her, and she set the disability date to that date....which was a couple of years before I even applied for SSDI.

She asked everyone if they objected, and her assistant said they dont usually go past the application date, and the judge cut her off and said the date stands.

I dressed just like I do everyday....nothing special. All I can say is ......dont give up if you are truly disabled and cannot work.
__________________

.
Gone Squatchin
allentgamer is offline   Reply With QuoteReply With Quote
"Thanks for this!" says:
echoes long ago (02-09-2015), LOOKIELOO (02-14-2015)
Old 02-14-2015, 12:56 AM #15
LOOKIELOO LOOKIELOO is offline
Junior Member
 
Join Date: Apr 2013
Posts: 20
10 yr Member
LOOKIELOO LOOKIELOO is offline
Junior Member
 
Join Date: Apr 2013
Posts: 20
10 yr Member
Default Thanks

I just want to take this opportunity to say Thank you to all that took the time to reply. I'm not as anxious as I was before not having any idea what to expect, THANK YOU ALL
LOOKIELOO is offline   Reply With QuoteReply With Quote
"Thanks for this!" says:
allentgamer (02-17-2015)
Reply


Posting Rules
You may not post new threads
You may not post replies
You may not post attachments
You may not edit your posts

BB code is On
Smilies are On
[IMG] code is On
HTML code is Off


Similar Threads
Thread Thread Starter Forum Replies Last Post
SCS info needed renhenne Reflex Sympathetic Dystrophy (RSD and CRPS) 4 01-20-2011 01:25 PM
Neurostimulator info needed for RSD renhenne Reflex Sympathetic Dystrophy (RSD and CRPS) 3 08-22-2010 09:02 PM
Info Needed MDoughty New Member Introductions 10 11-29-2007 03:29 PM
info on disability needed momotres Reflex Sympathetic Dystrophy (RSD and CRPS) 10 11-06-2006 05:06 PM


All times are GMT -5. The time now is 04:30 PM.

Powered by vBulletin • Copyright ©2000 - 2024, Jelsoft Enterprises Ltd.

vBulletin Optimisation provided by vB Optimise v2.7.1 (Lite) - vBulletin Mods & Addons Copyright © 2024 DragonByte Technologies Ltd.
 

NeuroTalk Forums

Helping support those with neurological and related conditions.

 

The material on this site is for informational purposes only,
and is not a substitute for medical advice, diagnosis or treatment
provided by a qualified health care provider.


Always consult your doctor before trying anything you read here.