You stated that you had many doctors telling you that you need the surgery. Even though you said, you don't think you need a second opinnion. As long
as others have looked over your records, you can feel assurred that what they are telling you to do is correct. I was in danger of being paralized, and had to have surgery to prevent this. I was in the same kind of situation. I was a success for the proceedure I had. I do want you to know that all this can turn out OK, and that you can go back to being a full time mommy again.
I wish you all the best. Please let us know how you are when you are recovering. ginnie