HI Leesa
Thank you so much for your response, advice and encouragement, Really needed this info right now. I mad a decision today that tomorrow would be the day to get hold of the physio who advised us in hospital. I must admit that the pillow between the knees has been neglected over the last week or so, so I shall make sure I do this again. it makes perfect sense really. She mostly spends her day lying on alternate sides. We have been for a few walks. The longest being 25 minutes. She manages that fine. The pain is much less today and have cut back on the pain meds further. Basically letting her show me how much pain she is having before I decide how much to give her, but these are much reduced.
Our surgeon, although one of the best in the world, is just the: a surgeon. I have to take Jo back in 6 weeks only! A long time in between to basically mess things up if not given the right guidance. So thanks again. x