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Old 10-21-2009, 03:07 PM #31
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Your family changing their minds about the rent is real progress...I hope for your sake it doesn't become an issue again.

Does the hospital have an outpatient program that you can take advantage of...to ease your way back home?

You're doing just great Steve.
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Steve, so glad your getting the help you need...great family is willing to work with. You are in our prayers always!!!

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Your family changing their minds about the rent is real progress...I hope for your sake it doesn't become an issue again.

Does the hospital have an outpatient program that you can take advantage of...to ease your way back home?

You're doing just great Steve.
Thank you Alffe. They have some sort of program. I'll be finding out around the time that I leave. BF
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BF, glad your family changed their minds but keep an eye open and get out of there as soon as you can. We care about you and how things are going down. It doesn't surprise me they changed their minds after you go into the hospital. You know what I mean? Try to keep yourself on those waiting lists for a new place that bases rent on your income. I believe you'll find peace once you are away from the toxic stuff.
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Thank you all. It is difficult to face these mental health issues continually. I'm here for a few more days.

I'm a little concerned about going home. There will be bills,and I'll be alone again. I feel fear,and It might take months for it to subside.

My family have changed their minds about charging me rent.

I'm glad that you all are here. I hope to survive these feelings. BF
Hey BF? Did your BIL return that HUGE chunk of change he demanded so you have some savings to deal with your bills? I really hope it means that they are going to treat you a little better, you don't deserve all this hoopla and drama going on in your life right now. I wish you the best BF. Keep posting. And take care.
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Cool Dear Steve

I'm glad your family came around about the rent.

I don't know whether you still intend to move or not... another thing to consider. but this at least gives you some time to breathe. whew.

but please, have the rent-free agreement with your family formalized. have the social workers help you.

this must be such a relief. i know it was a relief for me to read.

this place sounds like they've got a good program ... i am glad you are being cared for so well there.

((( hugs )))

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(Steve), I try to check in daily to see how you are doing. You have a good support group here. I'm so thankful that you are doing better, but I do understand that getting "better" isn't always easy . . ..

You are in my thoughts and prayers,
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I thank you all. I had a OK day today. I have two more group meetings today. I thank you all for the support. BF
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I'm leaving the hospital on Monday. I don't know what to expect. BF
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No expectations dear BF



Just go with the flow... you know that it will be tough when you get home ... so what you have to do is take baby steps...

don't try to accomplish everything at once... you'll have lots to catch up on

I'm glad you family changed their minds - I wonder if they have any idea how damaging they were to your well-being.... I'm sorry you had to go through this.

Rest up, you're going to be fine.

remember.... baby steps....

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