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03-13-2010, 06:53 PM | #1 | |||
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About a half hour ago I pulled a card from my deck of Doreen Virtue Fairie Oracle Cards.
When you pull one of the message cards you focus on a question. I was questioning the recent break-up of my oldest son's relationship (who I've been estranged from for over 10 yr... some of you may recall that Grand-Addy's birth 18 mo. ago brought us back together, briefly - and for him, very strained). The card I pulled said: "Whom Do You Need to Forgive?" My immediate thoughts went to my oldest son... yet... I have never "blamed" him for chosing not to have me in his life.... so... with him, there was nothing to forgive! ... I blamed ME .... and its ME who has to forgive ME! I keep blaming myself~ Wow... this all makes so much sense to me.... I need to forgive me.... because the only one this is going to make a difference to is ME! Ok, Addy... forgive thyself! No more anger and resentment towards ME! ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ P.S. However sad and melancholy it is that I "lost" my oldest son ... please know that I am very grateful he is still here on this earth. |
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03-13-2010, 08:04 PM | #2 | |||
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I "lost" my son too Addy. I share all of your feelings.
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"Thanks for this!" says: | Addy (03-14-2010), Alffe (03-19-2010), mistiis (03-16-2010), Nik-key (03-13-2010), thelonely1 (03-13-2010) |
03-13-2010, 08:40 PM | #3 | |||
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I agree with you Addy, you need to forgive yourself.
Unfortunatly, that's always the hardest person to forgive. I don't know the details, but I know you can't be held responsible for all the problems in your loved ones' lives.
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