for Lonely1 and David
 

Dear David

congratulations on your 21st wedding anniversary yesterday! :hug:


Dear Lonely1

- certainly keeping a roof over one's head is vital. this is a big, and very stressful problem. moving is big, and stressful too. and everything is that much harder when one is depressed.

i realize many places/complexes will have similar rules but they won't all be identical. it might help if you can provide written references from your current place (and previous if any), including rental amount. showing you have always paid rent before will attest to your reliability, even if you weren't the only person on the lease. they are only interested in reducing their risk. and regardless what they tell you is "standard policy" - they will go around it if you can convince them you are likely to pay rent.

there are advantages to complexes, but another thing i can suggest though, is consider renting from a private. here, you won't run into "policies" as much.

good luck. one thing at a time. :hug:

~ waves ~